A Comprehensive Guide to Male Nipple Stimulation

Who Said Nipple Play Was Just for the Ladies?

Men may not have breasts, but they certainly have nipples. Yet, for some reason, they just don’t carry the same cachet as a woman’s. Unfortunately, little research on nipple stimulation has been published, especially on men.

The research that has been done (the most enlightening dates back to 2006) found that only 17 percent of men have had their nipples played with during sex, compared to 59 percent of women. Considering 52 percent of men and 82 percent of women say nipple stimulation causes sexual arousal, it seems men are getting the short end of the stick. This research also noted that 78 percent of women and 40 percent of men agree on nipple stimulation increasing sexual arousal. Only seven percent of men and women believe the opposite. So what’s so wrong with men’s nipples? Nothing at all. This ignorance is basically born from a lack of proper education.

“Fear exists around the exploration of male nipple stimulation because nipples have been over-feminized,” says sexologist and pleasure coach Tyomi Morgan-Najieb. “Many men choose not to delve into nipple play because of what they perceive it will mean for their masculinity.” Women are taught about the nipple as an erogenous zone because their breasts are more directly linked to their sexual development. Men, on the other hand, are told nothing.

This disparity in how we’re educated about the male sexual body is a large reason why men’s nipples go under-noticed. We need more male nipple play represented in sex education and pop cultural depictions of sexual stimulation (kind of like what “Broad City” did for pegging.)

Male and female nipples are anatomically similar in that they both have milk ducts, and both types of breasts contain mammary tissues. “Male and female nipples both contain a dense supply of nerves that function as a major stimulatory organ,” explains Tyomi. “The difference is that the nerve network in the male nipple is denser, which means the sensory response to stimuli is typically more discreet. Male nipples are no less sensitive to stimulation than female nipples.”

At this point, you’re probably curious exactly how you should go about participating in said nipple play. Lucky for you, Tyomi was gracious enough to share all of her favorite tried-and-tested techniques, allowing you to experience all the pleasures the nipple has to offer.

The Best Hand Techniques for Male Nipple Stimulation

Light Finger Strokes: “Using the tip of the index or middle finger, slowly stroke the nipple lightly in a circular motion. Use the tip of the finger to apply quick, light strokes after circling.”
Finger Rolls: “Place the nipple between the thumb and index finger and roll the nipple back and forth between the fingers using light pressure. Increase the pressure once he gives the okay to do so.”
Nipple Pinch: “Place his nipple in between your thumb and index finger and apply hard pressure squeezing his nipple between your fingers.”
Chest Slaps: “Flatten your hand and slap his nipples quickly with the tips of your fingers.”
Nipple Flick: “Flick his nipples with the nail of your index finger.”
Nipple Twist: “Place his nipple in between your index and thumb finger and twist it in one direction, then the other.”

The Best Mouth Techniques for Male Nipple Stimulation

Tip Circles: “Use the tip of the tongue to circle around his nipple.”
Tongue Flick: “Use the tip of the tongue to quickly flick at his nipple.”
Tongue Stroke: “Use a flattened tongue to stroke across his nipples using the tastebuds of the middle pallet to add texture.”
Nipple Nibble: “Place his nipple between your front teeth and nipple it lightly.”
Nipple Bite: “Place his nipple between your front teeth and bite down while increasing the pressure as you sink your teeth into his flesh.”
Lip Strokes: “Use the wet, fleshy insides of your lips to grab and stroke at his nipples repeatedly.”
Sucker Fish: “Make duck lips and place them around his nipple to create a suction to pull at his nipples using your mouth.”
Grab and lick: “Grab his nipple with your index and thumb fingers, pull his nipple way from his body a bit and use the tip of your tongue to flick quickly.”

Other Techniques for Male Nipple Stimulation

Ice Stroke: “Place an ice cube in your finger tips and circle his nipple. As the ice melts, lick up the extra water using your tongue making sure to stroke his nipple with your tongue in the process.”
Wax Play: “Drip candle wax intended for wax play onto his nipples. Make sure you use your safe words.”
Food and Nips: “Use whipped cream or your favorite topping to drizzle onto his nipples and lick him clean.”