Everyone loves sex, and we’re not knocking the traditional missionary style. But sometimes the routine starts to lose the excitement and you want to try something fresh. These crazy sex positions may look intimidating at first, but with a bit of practice you’ll be glad you stepped over into the wild side!
Place a long and thin door mirror between her legs while she’s in doggy style. While you’re doing the deed, look down (make sure she does too) and see the penetration happening from an angle you’ve never seen before, says author of Sex in South Beach, Dr. Sonjia.
Dr. Sonjia says this position is only for the fitness-minded folks! She should lay on her “strong” side and straighten the arm closest to the ground to prop up her torso. Grab her upper leg, step over her lower leg and lifts her body into the air by her upper leg. She uses her strong arm to balance her upper body and you place your other arm under her hips to hold her steady. As soon as she feels stable, start thrusting before her strong arm wears out!
One of dating coach Laurel House’s favorite all-access positions is when you are on your knees with your hands pressed up against the headboard or wall and she is laying on her back between your legs. This gives her the ability to suck your penis while she gently plays with your balls with one hand and simultaneously presses just the tip of her finger into your anus, giving you three times the stimulation.
Add a little unexpected but amazingly erotic and orgasmic excitement and change up the All-Access Pass when she uses one hand to quickly handle your shaft — your base to tip, the other hand has just the tip of one finger pressing into your anus, and here’s the best part —- she is licking and gently sucking your ball sack.
The Flying Buttress
A variation on the Cowgirl, this position is great for show-offs: She’s on top but facing away from you, with her head at your feet, says Claire Cavanah, Babeland co-founder and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. This position gives her total control of depth and movement. You may be pinned down with little control, but you do get a chance to rest. Get ready for an amazing view as she straddles you!
Head Over Heels
Have her kneel on the floor with her arms bent by her sides (think bottom in the Child’s Pose from yoga class), says Lisa Sweet, author of 365 Sex Thrills: Positions, Tricks and Techniques for an Erotic Year. You then stand behind her and, bending slightly, grasp her knees and lift her until she is almost completely vertical. You can then maneuver yourself inside of her. The upside-down head rush will intensify her orgasm while the lifted angle will add new friction to your penis. If she has strong arms, give sex in every room of the house new meaning by taking a walk-a-thon during the action.
The Reverse Dugout
This is a spicy and unique woman-on-top position where the two of you are intertwined in ways that you’ve never been before, says Nikki Ransom-Alfred, certified Sex Expert and author of 30 Sex Positions and Tips for Getting Wild, Rough, and Kinky. She is on top with her rear facing you. With your penis inside of her vagina, she can lean forward to where her breasts are touching your legs and wrap her arms under your legs while she moves her hips. You can lie there and enjoy the “ride” and also caress and spank her bottom. You get a great view of her beautiful bottom and she gets to feel your penis penetrate and stimulate her vaginal walls in a completely different way. Add a little spanking to this position if you two want to get extra kinky.
Ransom-Alfred says in this position she lies on her back and forms a diamond with her legs, with her knees pointed outward and feet together. This allows you to get deeper into her vagina and stimulate her G-spotand her A-spot. Stimulate her clitoris, too, to drive her wild and give her an intense orgasm.
This position is hot for the men who love ladies that love squats. You go flat on your back on the bed or floor. She starts by squatting over you, facing you. She sits onto your penis ever so slowly and squeezes her vaginal walls as soon as she makes contact with your shaft. She squats shallow, shallow, then deep, taking all of you inside of her. On the next shallow squat, she turns 1/4 of a turn clockwise, so her side is facing you now. Repeat the shallow, shallow, and then deep squat, with her squeezing her vaginal walls each time she makes contact with your shaft. Then she makes another 1/4 turn clockwise, so now her rear is towards your face. Repeat the shallow, shallow, and then deep squats before making another 1/4 turn. Dr. Sonjia says that with this position, chances are you’ll climax before she makes the full 360 turn. Hot. The best part about this is that she is in complete control and can experience different angles, some of which she’ll find are much more likely to bring her to climax.
This is a standing position you often see in the movies when the couple so urgently want to get down to business that they don’t even bother to get undressed or to lie down! You are standing and facing her and holding her up while she straddles you, which can take a lot of strength. If you’re not feeling so superhuman that day, try backing her up against the wall for a little support, suggests Cavanah. This position can be all about location, location, location — get out of the bedroom and try it in the kitchen, your office, or the living room!
Also known as the Wheelbarrow, this delightful position will bring out your inner gymnast! She’s got her hands on the floor while you’re holding onto her hips or thighs and running the show from behind. Cavanah recommends this position as one where you’ll get an amazing view from behind, with the added bonus that it often gives a tighter fit than facing positions.
This is a very sexually raw pose, focused much more on stimulation than intimacy, says Dr. Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University and author of Idiot’s Guides: Kama Sutra. She stands with her legs shoulder-width apart and bends at the waist to place her hands on the floor or around her ankles. You approach from behind, and, as you thrust, you can reach around to fondle her breasts or even her clitoris as long as you have solid footing.