Never Have I Ever: Gone Down on Someone on Their Period
Here’s What It’s Really Like to ‘Earn Your Red Wings’ in Bed
Here’s What It’s Really Like to ‘Earn Your Red Wings’ in Bed
Have you ever played “Never Have I Ever” before? Here are the rules: Everyone puts up ten fingers, and you go around in a circle and one by one share something sexy or scandalous that you’ve never done before. When someone else shares something you have done, you have to put one finger down — and of course, drink. The first person to put all 10 fingers down loses (or wins, depending on how you look at it).
Well, AskMen is still playing Never Have I Ever, and the rules are simple: In each edition of this column, we speak to someone about doing something new in bed, whether it’s a long-time fantasy, something that just happened, or even something they regret. They tell us everything so you get an inside look at what some sexual experiences are actually like.
Apparently, the infamous Hell’s Angels motorcycle gang gives out badges like the Boy Scouts. One of these badges is said to feature red wings. Curious as to what violent, homicidal act one must do to earn such a badge?
Simple — you have to perform cunnilingus on someone while they’re on their period. The image of “red wings” comes from the traces of blood that allegedly form around one’s mouth after doing so.
It’s a bit far-fetched, but the Hell’s Angels are far from the first to apply meaning to oral sex performed during the receiver’s menstrual period. In the 18th century, Victor de Riqueti, aka the Marquis de Mirabeau, a French economist, associated the act with a Black Mass, or the Satanic perversion of a Catholic Mass.
Throughout history, sex during menstruation has been considered incredibly taboo by many societies, but at the risk of letting everyone down, as AskMen found by interviewing Cory, a 32-year-old man, it’s not that big of a deal. Keep the tampon in, throw down a dark towel, and, sorry, Satan will not be impressed.
However, you could get a most excellent blowjob in return, without even getting blood on your face, making the act nice and tidy rather than bloody terrible. Keep reading to learn about Cory’s first experience and why it won’t be his last.
AskMen: Before you went down on someone on their period, what did you think of earning your “red wings?”
Cory: I was always really grossed out by the idea of “going down” on a girl if she was on her period. I thought I was really taking one for the team.
Will you tell me about your first experience with it? Was it gross, worse than you expected, or not such a big deal?
It was much better than expected. Not gross at all. I was in a long-term committed relationship with a girl, and we were really comfortable with each other. We started calling her time of the month “BJ week.” It was her birthday, which fell right in the middle of her monthly visit. So I decided to return the favor.
It’s not bad at all. Oral sex can be entirely external contact as you can mainly just focus on the “button.” If she leaves the tampon in and is clean down there, it’s the same as when she’s not on her period.
You said you were “taking one for the team” — what made you decide to do that?
Because I don’t like things to be one-sided, and she had no problem going down on me during her time of the month, and I know how much she likes it.
How did your partner feel about it? Some women can be self-conscious about letting anyone perform oral sex on them while they’re menstruating.
She was surprised it was happening and felt a little self-conscious at first, but then just enjoyed herself. She even asked me after if it was gross, and I told her it was fine!
What, if any, kind of hot sex did the act lead to?
I got the most enthusiastic blowjob in return as a reward for my efforts.
Did it taste like anything?
It tastes metallic for the first, like half a second, and then it tastes the same as usual.
Did you make her cum?
Yes, I did.
Would you (or have you) do it again?
I still do it all the time.
Sometimes, bodily functions turn us on just due to their primal nature or the element of taboo. Was that the case for you?
No, not in particular. It’s not like a kink or anything, but I don’t mind.
What advice would you give to a guy interested in trying this but has yet to?
Do it after a shower, and stay on the outside. My piece of advice would be to make sure you keep [the tampon] string out of the way. And lay a towel (a dark towel) down first.
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Source: AskMen
