Men Discuss Receiving Oral Sex

9 Men Debate What Makes Someone Going Down On You So Pleasurable

Blowjobs. Fellatio. Getting head. Playing the skin flute. OK, maybe I’m the only one who still uses that last one. What I’m trying to get at here is that there are a ton of different terms for oral sex. Why? Simple. Because men just love oral sex.

Just how much do they enjoy receiving it? According to one study done by Love Matters, over 70% of men would rather have someone go down on them than have actual intercourse. I would have put my money on P in the V winning out here, but apparently there’s nothing that beats someone going downtown on you.

Which got me thinking, what’s so great about oral sex? What do guys really think about oral pleasure? To help your partner help you out, I asked men to tell me all the details about the best parts of getting head, the mistakes to avoid, and a few, um, colorful anecdotes about what it’s like when women simply blow them away.

Here’s what a few honest men had to say about getting their tips wet:

Like A Wild Adventure

“Bad oral sex feels like a waste of time. Good oral sex feels like falling spread eagle through the sky into vanilla flavored clouds — and the more you fall, the better you feel. And the sun isn’t above you, but underneath you, and it gets more and more intense, but not in a burning way (thank God) until you can’t take it anymore and you cum. It feels like a piece of your soul is riding a little tiny inner tube down a creamy river, and while you feel accomplished in that very powerful moment, all you want is for her to leave you and your penis alone so that the missing piece of soul can be sewed back up. Then you go again, or give her an excuse to go away.” — Hashim, 36

Calm But Excited

“You know that feeling you get inside during the winter when you’re cold and stuck in the house on a snowy day? Then you grab a book, hot chocolate and a warm blanket, and you are so unbelievably comfortable? It is having your mind clear, but your thoughts race at the same time. It is being calm on the outside, but about to explode with excitement on the inside (pun very much intended).” — Jim, 29

Best When There’s A Connection

“The keyword is ‘intimacy.’ Without an intense, spiritual connection, oral sex is a mundane act; the response merely involuntary. True oral intimacy produces an incomparable feeling that can scarcely be described.” — Brian, 29

Tough To Describe

“It’s hard to put into words what oral sex feels like for me, which is kind of frustrating for me because I write for a living, but it kind of defies specific explanation. In my experience, it’s the best physical feeling in the world next to vaginal sex. In a few words, a blowjob feels warm and wet, with occasional jolts of ecstasy usually caused my some sort of move with the tongue. I guess it depends on who’s going down on you, though. If there’s something like too much teeth involved, it can be downright painful. But if it’s good, it feels like high-fiving God (or what I imagine that would feel like, anyway).” — Raymond, 29

Like A Warm Spring

“Good oral intimacy feels like having your favorite four-thousand nerve endings dipped in the warm spring that comes from God’s own garden. Bad oral intimacy feels like rubbing a cheese grater up and down your wang like it’s a bad block of pecorino.” — Daniel, 29

6. Best When There’s Eye Contact

“You don’t want your blowjob to turn into a staring contest. But when I’m looking down at the girl who has so graciously decided to offer up her fellatio talent unto my penis, I hate seeing a whole bunch of hair for the whole duration of things. Mind you, I don’t want to lock eyes with her the entire time. I’d imagine her neck would end up hurting, and also, it just feels awkward. But getting those few glimpses of her bobbing up and down on me while making eye contact is so hot, and definitely adds to the experience.” — Paul, 29

A Sucker For Suction

“There’s this vacuum effect that some girls who have gone down on me have been able to create, and I think that’s when oral sex is at it’s best. It’s still not as tight as being inside of her, but it’s a whole other sensation that you’re not used to feeling from just penetration. I’m not sure exactly how to describe it, but basically she’s sucking air in while moving her mouth up and down on it. The orgasms that come from this one are really intense.” — Carl, 23

Teeth Add An Element Of Um…Danger

“When a woman has taken me into her mouth, there is something aggressive about it. If, for example, she uses her teeth to hold me — then there is a thrill different from the simple pleasure of touch. The act conveys danger. When she says ‘I’m going to eat you,’ there is the hint — or threat — that she will devour my cock.” — Irwin, 24

It Needs Variety

“Blowjobs can get boring if she’s just doing the same movement over and over. If it’s just an in and out motion, it feels good, don’t get me wrong. But I’m not as into it as if she’s touching my balls, grabbing my shaft, giving the tip of my dick a flick with her tongue sporadically. I need her to keep it interesting, you know?” — Kyle, 22

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Source: AskMen