You may have known your woman for years but are you aware of her secret wishes? The woman who is completely docile in bed can have some fiery desires tucked away in her heart. Women have secret sexual desires which they do not feel comfortable to share with their male partners in fear of hurting their ego. Here are some ideas about what your woman may be secretly wishing from you in bed.
Focus on her entire body
Women relate sex to love and desirability. They want their men to love every part of their body. Kissing them on the inner thigh or the earlobes arouse them like nothing else. This, I hope will give you enough clue to know how to have better sex and give her pleasure too.
Let her know that she is special
Love making needs to be a complete sensuous experience for women. You know every woman loves to be pampered. She needs to be pampered in bed too. You can do that physically and emotionally while making love to her. Tell her how special she is, how she makes you feel and how much you love her. Speak to her and praise her body parts. She will enjoy immensely the attention you shower on her and your love making will reach a different level.
A woman needs to feel loved through her whole body. That is why foreplay is so important to her. It is not necessary only to arouse her and make her reach orgasm but also to raise her senses. So, extend your foreplay and find innovative ways to caress her. You should remember that there are some spots in her body which are more sensuous like her neck, earlobes and inner thigh.
Most women hate to admit it but they enjoy dirty talk. They want their men to talk nasty things while love making. This is one of the weird fantasies of women. But they seldom reveal this because they fear that their men may do this outside the bedroom also.
For you the clue is to get real dirty between the sheets and keep it restricted there only.
Be aggressive to her
She wants to be treated like a queen but while in bed she wants you to get rough. Yes, many women fantasize being handled in a rough way by their partners. This may come as a surprise to you because she is a “good girl” but acting nice always doesn’t make her happy. She will want you to get aggressive in bed and do wild things. Spanking, cursing and handcuffing are some of the things you can try.
A woman friend went on to admit that she wants her man to treat her like a prostitute. This may come as a shocker to you but it is true.
Her wild fantasies
You are not the only one who wants to get threesome. Even she fantasizes that. Yes, women have fantasies that may make you go green. Going threesome, role playing, making out in the public are some of her lustful fantasies.
A woman may continue to hide things she wants her man to do to her in bed. Being sensitive towards her and talking frankly will make her open her heart.