4 Women Discuss Giving Oral Sex

We Spoke To Women About Their Thoughts On Oral Sex. Find Out What They Had To Say.

Most men would enjoy nothing more than laying back and enjoying the slow, sensuous feel of a pair of wet lips wrapped around their penises. Unfortunately, some women aren’t the biggest fans of the act, but worry not; there are others who would love nothing more than to greet a man’s member with their scarlet lips.

Thus today’s focus is on oral sex and what women adore and abhor about the sport, so to speak. So everything you’ve been dying to know about what your woman might be thinking when she’s giving you a blowjob may lie in the answers the following women provide.

THE PLAYERS

Bianca, 25, Bartender, Dating

Nicole,19, Student, Single

Linda, 39, Accountant, Divorced

Toula, 44, Self-employed, Married

Thanks for joining me, ladies. Let’s get started. To start, what do you enjoy about performing oral sex?

Nicole: I love the fact that I can make a guy squirm by using my mouth to caress his penis and testicles. Knowing that I have such control over his pleasure is flattering.

Bianca: I like doing it because he loves it. I know that when I’m getting down on my knees for him, he feels like a king and that makes me want to do it.

Toula: I’m not very keen on performing oral sex, but what I do like about it is the fact that whenever I do it, I can get whatever I want out of my husband.

Linda: I enjoy the taste and texture of certain penises. Some guys just smell great and taste sweet. Nothing compares to a smooth penis.

Uh-huh… my colleagues demanded that I ask the following… do you prefer to spit or swallow?

Toula: I’ve tried swallowing and I have to say, it was the most disgusting thing I’ve ever tasted. It was bitter and foul, not to mention I nearly puked. My poor husband was trying his hardest to comfort me even though I know I ruined his orgasm in the worst way.

Linda: I used to swallow my husband’s, uh, “juice” all the time. It was a given that whenever I would fellate him, I’d swallow. It tasted amazing but unlike anything I’ve ever tasted before. But I wouldn’t do it with just any man.

Bianca: Yeah, I agree, I think that swallowing is a very intimate thing and should only be done with a man that you trust and love. It’s very flattering to a man that his woman would ingest his sperm, but if she did it with every guy, then how special is that?

Nicole: I don’t see what the big deal is; I would never swallow. It’s just disgusting. Even when I taste the pre-ejaculate, I feel like vomiting. One boyfriend begged me to and even tried to get me to do it by not telling me he was ready to release. I ended up spitting it out in his face. I’m certain he’ll never try that again.

That ought to teach him… Has a man ever told you that you were terrible?

Linda: I think that men are so excited to get you down there that even if you were chewing on his penis like it were a hot dog, he would grin and bear it. So no, I’ve never gotten any negative feedback.

Toula: I have. Considering my husband is the only man that I’ve experimented with, I used to fellate him on a fairly regular basis and one day he asked me to do it without using my teeth. Then he proceeded to give me more directions until I was doing something completely different than what I was accustomed to. That’s when I realized that I sucked, both literally and figuratively speaking.

Bianca: I’ve gotten nothing of the kind. I’ve been told that I give the best oral sex ever. Although I did once fall asleep with “it” in my mouth. (The women look around in a confused manner.) Oh it’s a long story… I was drunk — let’s just leave it at that.

Nicole: I’ve never been given any feedback, good or bad. But the guys do reach orgasm so I guess I must be doing something right.

What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done when it comes to fellatio?

Toula: A friend of mine gave me this flavored, heating lube that I could use to enhance the experience. Although it was great at first, it ended up turning into a sticky mess and started to taste like saccharin. It was fun though, and my husband and I laughed for hours and still do whenever we talk about it.

Bianca: My ex always wanted to be in a threesome and although I would never let him penetrate another woman, I decided to bring my roommate into the room once and we both spent a long time pleasing his manhood. I would suck his testicles while she would suck his penis and then we’d massage the entire area with our hands. Needless to say, he nearly hit the ceiling when he ejaculated.

Nicole: I performed on two guys at the same time. While I masturbated one, I would fellate the other and then switch. As well, we were in a public place and although I would never do it again because the guys treated me terribly, I don’t regret it.

Linda: I placed my ex on the bed on all fours with his legs spread, I placed myself underneath him facing his penis but with a lot of pillows under me so that I wouldn’t have to strain to suck on him. And while I used my mouth, saliva and hand to massage his penis, I used my other hand to massage his prostate. Oh man, did he go crazy!

What do you dislike about fellatio?

Nicole: I hate it when a guy hasn’t washed and doesn’t tell me. And when I get down there, there’s all this nasty dirt that ends up in my mouth. Oh, and the taste of semen, ugh!

Linda: That’s called smegma and it builds up over time more often on uncircumcised penises. Anyhow, I think it’s disgusting when a guy doesn’t trim down there simply because it limits my ability to go crazy on him. I think all guys should be taught to keep that area clean and proper.

Toula: I dislike it when I get no feedback. When the man just lies there like a corpse. How am I supposed to know if I’m pleasing him unless he tells me? I don’t have a penis; I don’t know what the sensation is like

Bianca: I don’t really hate anything about it, especially considering that I wouldn’t wrap my mouth around just any penis. But what I can’t understand is why a guy would refuse to kiss me after I’m done pleasing him. It’s his penis after all, and I’m willing to kiss him after he performs on me. All my friends tell me the same thing about their guys. That trips me out.

Do you have a secret technique when it comes to performing on a man?

Bianca: Oh yeah. I usually rotate between my mouth and my vagina. I will wrap my mouth around his penis and get a good rhythm going. And when I know he’s extremely excited, I’ll stop for a second, massage his penis with my hand and then ride him for a minute or two. I’ll keep bringing him to the edge until he finally can’t take it anymore and throws me onto the bed and has his way with me. And sometimes I give my boyfriend a Popsicle and have him show me what he wants me to do to his penis. I get so excited watching him that I begin to play with myself while I suck him.

Linda: I love to put it in my mouth when it’s soft and suck on it as it grows in my mouth. It’s usually difficult to do because when my man knows he’s going to get some, he becomes erect. That’s why I usually do it when he’s sleeping. There’s nothing like waking a man up with awesome oral sex.

Nicole: I stroke the base of his penis with one hand, suck the top with my mouth and use the other hand to gently massage and tickle his testicles. As well, I sometimes squeeze the base of his penis trapping the blood at the top, and wrap my lips over my teeth and suck the head as quickly as I can.

Toula: Thanks for the ideas ladies (winks). The kinkiest thing I do, which may not even be considered kinky, is I massage his inner thighs while I fellate him. He likes it so I guess it’s not that bad.

How long are you willing to stay down there?

Bianca: As long as it takes to please him. Once I did it for so long that my mouth was numb and my lips were swollen. Who needs lip injections? Suck on a penis for an hour, that ought to do the trick!

[Everyone laughs…]

Nicole: I usually get bored after about ten minutes.

Linda: This may be hard to believe, but I really enjoy doing it. I feel pleasure giving him pleasure. So I wouldn’t put a time limit on it, nor would I do it until I couldn’t feel my lips. I treat my man’s penis as though it were a precious commodity.

Toula: Oh not me. I mean, sometimes I’m in the mood to do it, but usually I do it just long enough so that he stops pestering me for it.

What advice would you give to guys when it comes to getting their women to perform on them?

Nicole: Keep it clean and if you know you’re not fresh, don’t let her get on her knees. Otherwise, she’ll always remember that bad, stank experience.

Linda: Unless you want to be referred to as “Jungle Jim,” I suggest you keep the area trim and proper.

Toula: If you want to receive, you have to give. And I’m talking with enthusiasm.

Bianca: React. Moan, say things like “yes, right there, this is amazing,” women need to know that you’re enjoying what they’re doing.

Ladies, thank you so much for your candid answers and I hope we can do this again sometime.

Well there you have it gentlemen, things you’ve always wanted to know but were too afraid to ask. I hope that one of these women happens to fit the bill when it comes to what you want and if not, don’t worry. There is someone for everyone and there is surely a woman who will be more than willing to please you.

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Source: AskMen