Sexy Alternatives To The Dick Pic

12 Women Told Us What They Want You To Send (Instead Of An Explicit Pic)

I’m sure some women like to receive them, but based on what the majority of recipients attest, a dick pic just isn’t worth the trouble. While I’m confident this general distaste isn’t purely about the content and more about getting to know a person before sending such a graphic image, there’s no denying the dick pic has seen better days.

Against our better judgement, some of us see no problem in sending a dick pic following an innocent Tinder introduction. And guys, we should all agree that 99% of the time, this kind of thing is a bit soon. Because of this epidemic of dick pics, I reached out to women who’ve claimed to have received images from men that they found incredibly sexy and actually contained no dick at all (well, no naked dick).

So if it isn’t a flattering image of our manhood, what the hell are in these sought-after images? Here’s what 11 women (and one guy) had to say.

Suggest A Good Old Lap Ride

I had a guy who used to send me photos of his lap in different settings, insinuating that we’d have sex in that spot. Along with the image was the message, “I want you right here.” I liked that. I liked that a lot.
– Christine, 24

Vulnerability, When Done Right, Can Be Sexy

A shirtless photo of him in bed (either at night or in the morning) can be sexy, and suggests he likes to cuddle — and women love to spoon! Also, if he wears contacts, a photo of him relaxing at home in his glasses says he’s confident and willing to expose himself in a vulnerable way. Women love knowing a man is taking down his walls.
– Vanessa, 30

Show That Eggplant

A sexy alternative for me is what we call the “eggplant.” I’d rather see a bulge from the erection through some sweats or tight pants. It’s more discreet but still lets you know what they’re working with. I also love to see a photo of a guy who is well-dressed, or a video clip of him doing something creative like telling a joke, playing the piano, dancing, or cooking!
– Suzette, 37

Get Suggestive

A guy in bed with his hands down his boxers is really sexy. As long as we see no dick!
– Samantha, 28

Show Off Them Stems

My husband was traveling on business last week, so I asked him to text me a picture of his sexy legs. He sent a picture of his legs fully extended on the bed. The only other thing visible was his shorts and feet. I enjoyed that picture very much.
– Rebekah, 43

Play Your Nudity Off As A Joke

I had a boyfriend who’d sometimes send nudes, but whenever he did it, he made sure he covered his junk. Like, he’d be naked in his recliner, but he’d have a bag of Lays potato chips where his wiener would be. It was sexy, but funny as well. (I should also add I love Lays. He knew I loved Lays.)
– Amanda, 19

Show It Without Showing It

Happy trails in boxer-briefs. HELLO!
– Britini, 30

Embrace The Man-Booty

With the added caveat that super thick dudes’ thigh/butt situation is pretty great, I’m down with a lower body shot in a good boxer-briefs scenario.
– Jodie, 26

Take A Shot Of A Potential Date Spot

Maybe I’m old-fashioned, but what really gets me going is when a guy tells me that he’s found a place (a restaurant, a bar, a park, whatever) that he wants to take me to. That way I know he’s thinking about me when we’re apart, and how to make me happy when we get together. This kind of thing is much better than a cock shot.
– Amanda, 37

Give Her Something Even More Personal (But Not Really. Don’t Do This)

A photo of his credit card information. That would be nice.
– Nicki, 22

Display More Modest Qualities

I’m an art and fitness model (meaning I’m often nude) and I can tell you from experience that women respond to images of my face and eyes in particular. If it’s nudity they’re after, it’s usually shirtless and sometimes butt.
– Paul, 43

Be The Opposite Of Sexy

I don’t know about other girls, but I love it when my boyfriend does something dorky in a photo. Too many guys try to act sexy by being — hate to say it — douchebags. I, on the other hand, love seeing my man doing the opposite and act like a complete dweeb; whether that’s wearing a onesie with the Bat signal on it, or singing along to a song most men would be embarrassed to admit they like, it shows confidence, and not in a way that’s lewd.
– Caroline, 29

Source: AskMen