Never Have I Ever: Tried Cock & Ball Torture

One of the Most Extreme Things You Can Do in Bed, Explained (By Someone Who Loves It)

Have you ever played “Never Have I Ever” before? Here are the rules: Everyone puts up ten fingers, and you go around in a circle and one by one share something sexy or scandalous that you’ve never done before. When someone else shares something you have done, you have to put one finger down — and of course, drink. The first person to put all 10 fingers down loses (or wins, depending on how you look at it).

Well, AskMen is still playing Never Have I Ever, and the rules are simple: In each edition of this column, we speak to someone about doing something new in bed, whether it’s a long-time fantasy, something that just happened, or even something they regret. They tell us everything so you get an inside look at what some sexual experiences are actually like.

When most folks think of the acronym CBT, they may think of cognitive behavioral therapy, a type of goal-oriented talk therapy that helps you change and address behavior. It’s used to treat anxiety, depression, and a slew of other mental health conditions.

However, depending on what ails you, the other type of CBT, which stands for cock and ball torture, may be more effective (but I am not a doctor).

But after chatting with Jasmine Mendez, called Goddess Jasmine by her subs, it honestly seems more cathartic — whether you’re kicking your sub in the balls with your shiny black boots or suffering through some ball-busting because you tried to pay your Goddess in $20s like some sad little worm.

CBT should really only be done with a professional, because ball injuries are real. However, if it’s someone trusted and experienced, you can really get creative with CBT.

You can kick balls, squeeze them, punch them, grab them, electrocute them… are the people with testicles still reading? OK, good. Because Goddess Jasmine and her puny little sub answered some nasty questions about CBT and since you’re already here you better keep scrolling.

AskMen: How did you get into CBT?

Goddess Jasmine: I got into CBT in high school. I had a boyfriend. I would squeeze his balls. If he didn’t eat my pussy long enough from then on, it just became part of my lifestyle. It became a way for me to guide men to please me physically and financially.

Goddess Jasmine’s Sub: I personally don’t like CBT but I do it because it pleases my Goddess. I love to see the smile on her face, and I will do anything to put that smile on her face and keep it there.

What does it typically involve?

Goddess Jasmine: I typically will either squeeze balls, dig my nails into them, punch them, and my favorite: Ball bust them with my black shiny boots.

If a submissive were to pay me in my 20s, he would get busted or punished in some way. If I want to train one of my pets, I will use CBT and chastity. I take great joy in owning my pet’s dick and knowing it either gets pain or pleasure, but only if I say so.

What made you want to try it?

Goddess Jasmine’s Sub: The first time I tried it, my goddess ball busted me, because I brought the wrong dollar bills. My Goddess only likes big bills. She does not like to carry $20 bills. Though I don’t like ball busting, I never made that mistake again.

What was that first time like?

Goddess Jasmine’s Sub: The first time my Goddess ball busted me I fell to my knees and felt like I was gonna puke. It wasn’t as intense as I thought it was gonna be. It was more the anticipation of getting busted.

But then she grabbed me by the balls, pulled me up, told me to get on my knees, looked me in the eyes and told me I belonged to her and then I kissed her feet. From there I was hooked. There was just something about her that made me want to submit.

Five years later I am one of her trusted pets.

Goddess Jasmine, what do you like about CBT?

Goddess Jasmine: I love seeing how willing my pets are to please me, and always, even if it means taking pain for me. Plus I am latina. We are fiery by nature.

My pets love it. They do everything they can to please me and not disappoint me so sometimes I just have to hurt them for fun, not too much, but enough to show them I’ve got them by the balls. Lol.

So, Sub, how did it match your expectations?

Goddess Jasmine’s Sub: It didn’t hurt as much as I thought it was gonna hurt, but it’s still not one of my favorite things to do.

What advice do you have for newbies?

Goddess Jasmine: Go with a professional dominatrix. Don’t just have your girlfriend start kicking you. There is a technique to the way you inflict pain.

Goddess Jasmine’s Sub: If it pleases your goddess, do it. Your goddess deserves a committed slave army. Pleasing her should become your sex.

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Source: AskMen