What Makes Women Want to Have a Threesome

What Makes Her Want To Have A Threesome? These Women Reveal All

According to a survey conducted by ABC, 14% of adults (and twice as many single men!) have had a threesome. Another 21% have fantasized about it. But if adding another player in your bedroom is something you’ve always dreamed of, it might take some convincing to get your girlfriend up to the challenge.

While some women ‘gift’ a threesome for their guy’s milestone birthdays (y’know, once you’ve been together for many, many years) or when they find themselves attracted to another lady — the reasons for deciding to try a threesome for the first time varies for everyone.

But if you’re looking to convince her to have a threesome, see why these seven women decided to add an extra pair legs to their beds:

Jen

“I like girls anyway, but I probably wouldn’t have a solo encounter. I like kissing girls, and I love boobs (doesn’t everyone?). I love having a partner in crime to tease and torture a guy until he becomes a wanton animal and then giving him exactly what he wants.”

Melissa

“My boyfriend and I decided to have a threesome as a mutual decision. I was feeling bi-curious and well… he’s a man. We now have them on a regular basis with the same girl, and sometimes mix it up and have them with a guy too! Our communication has never been stronger and our sex life is so much fun!”

Cerridwen

“At 20, when I first heard the word ‘bisexual,’ and realized it described me, it was like Christmas, New Year’s and the Fourth of July all rolled into one. My husband was perhaps equally thrilled when he realized our Sunday girl-watching expeditions could morph into something more ‘hands on’. It took a couple of years for us to seduce one of our dearest woman friends into our bed, but it was well worth the wait. My husband and I were so young when we first got together (17 and 18), it seemed logical to explore polyamory so we could explore being with others, yet stay together. It worked well for us. The fact that we often liked the same women made it easy.”

Christina

“I decided to try it because I was curious what another woman would feel like. I was also very curious to find out how two female energies can play together with one male energy. To my surprise, it was very comfortable and playful.”

Allison

“Honestly, I wanted to try something new. I’m already a sexually open person, so it just made sense for me to keep challenging myself to take it a step further, as long as I was comfortable. It is hard to find a good balance for three people. It is already a very emotional process to sleep with one person, so adding a third can be tricky. But, all in all, it was totally worth it, and totally fun, and I think as long as you feel safe, comfortable, and you trust all parties involved, and keep an open mind, you will have a blast.”

Laura

“Mine was with a married couple I am great friends with. It was a running joke with us for a couple years about having a threesome, but that was honestly all I thought it was. One night after a festival in the Florida Keys (where there had been plenty of day drinking!), we decided to go back to their house and have a few more. Suddenly we began talking about it again, and they both looked at each other and seriously asked me if I wanted to that night. I was very hesitant, but the thing that made me do it was that the girl asked me. She not only asked me, but she encouraged everything during the act, so it made me feel much more comfortable. There is no jealousy between us since we are all good friends, which is very rare when two of the participants are married.”

Maggie

“It was a combination of curiosity and love for him that made me finally give in. I was curious for myself to see if it was really all that. And I wondered if it was something I might get into and enjoy for myself. I also knew he wanted so much to see the two of us girls together and to be together with him, that the more we discussed it, the more turned on I became.”

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Source: AskMen