Small Penis Sex Positions
5 Genius Sex Positions if You Feel You’re Smaller Than Average
5 Genius Sex Positions if You Feel You’re Smaller Than Average
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Not having a large penis is nothing to feel insecure about. The old adage is true: It’s not what size you are, it’s how you use it. Still, if you feel you have a smaller than average penis, there are some sex positions and techniques that can help ensure you and your partner experience immense pleasure during sex.
“On average, the flaccid circumference is somewhere between 3.5 to 3.9 inches (9 to 10 centimeters), while the flaccid length falls somewhere between 2.8 to 3.9 inches (7 to 10 centimeters,” says B. J. Releford, founder of Donkey Fuel Formulations. “The average erect girth falls somewhere between 4.7 to 4.9 inches (12 to 13 centimeters), while the average erect length is somewhere between 4.7 to 6.3 inches (12 to 16 centimeters).”
While research shows that on average, 45 percent of men believe they have a small sized penis, the research also states that 85 percent of women are very satisfied with the penis sizes and proportion of their partners, says Releford.
“Generally speaking, specifically men with an erect length of less than 3 inches (7 centimeters) or a flaccid length of less than 1.6 inches (4 centimeters) can be considered candidates of penile lengthening. However, it is important to note that dimensions of erection will gradually vary depending on the mode of getting aroused. Also, you should understand that the penis size could be radically smaller because of a longer dimension extending back to the testes.” he adds.
If you’re someone who doesn’t feel like his size will live up to his lady’s expectations, don’t fret. In fact, she may be extremely pleased with your schlong’s average length.
“Our sex education in the U.S. is so bad that porn becomes a source of information, or perhaps I should say ‘information,’ because we cannot infer correct sex info from porn alone,” says Carol Queen, Good Vibrations staff sexologist.
“Most women don’t want to have sex with guys with large penises; it often hurts. Average to just-above-average (but not a lot above) is what many women say they prefer. For oral, average is just fine, thank you!”
Is 5 Inches Small?
“Since the average penis size is around 5 inches fully erect, it’s tough to use the terms ‘bigger’ penis and ‘smaller’ penis, plus I find it can add to the insecurities guys are dealing with on a regular basis,” says adult performer and sex educator Jessica Drake, star of Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Foreplay. “The truth is, many women are more satisfied with an ‘average’ cock anyways, and remember … sex isn’t always just penetrative, i.e., insert tab A into slot B.”
That being said, says Drake, if you want to increase friction and tightness, try positions where the woman has her legs together.
Hitting the Pleasure Spots
Before we get into penis size, it’s important to note that women experience two main types of orgasms: the more common clitoral orgasm and the elusive G-spot orgasm.
“The clitoris is located outside of the vagina (no penis necessary), and your G-spot is nestled just a few inches inside,” says sexologist Emily Morse, host of the “Sex With Emily” podcast and author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight. This means you don’t really need a massive member to hit her sweet spots. Pleasing your partner is really about picking sex positions that makes optimal use of what you’ve got.”
Best Small-Penis Sex Positions
1. Modify Missionary
Skip positions like missionary, says Morse, which hinder your thrusting abilities and make it difficult for her to feel you as deeply as you both would like. “If you do go with a missionary-style position (which does provide the clitoral stimulation necessary to help most women reach orgasm), try lying flat against your partner pelvis-to-pelvis and scoot up a couple inches before penetrating her and rock up and down (instead of in and out),” she adds.
“This move is called the Coital Alignment Technique (also known as the CAT position or ‘Perfect Position’),” Morse explains. “When employing this technique, the base of your penis will directly stimulate her clitoris, making it easier for her to orgasm and making the size of your penis a non-issue.”
2. Doggy Style
Another orgasmic option: the popular doggy style! “This position allows for some deeper penetration, plus it will enable your penis to rub against her G-spot and gives you direct access to her clitoris,” says Morse. From here, you can easily massage her clit using your hand or with a hand-held vibrator (like the JimmyJane Form 2).
3. Swivel and Grind
Whichever position you choose, remember that “in and out” is not the optimal motion for her pleasure. “Instead, try using a grinding motion with your hips or even a ‘swivel and screw’ type of movement,” says Morse. “These will make the most of your equipment and hit all of her pleasure spots.”
Another trick is to bring in some bedroom furniture, like the Liberator wedge, which can set you up in positions that allow for the deepest penetration possible. “The wedge is built to perfectly angle you in many popular positions for some targeted G-spot stimulation and extra-deep intercourse,” she adds.
4. Girl on Top
Another great one to try is the woman-on-top position. “Being on top puts the perfect amount of pressure on her clitoris and allows her to control depth and angle of penetration,” notes Morse. “It also make it easier for her to move in a way that feels pleasurable for her, and will give your penis much better access to her G-spot (which, as I mentioned, is actually located just a couple inches inside her vagina).”
5. Spins on Doggy Style
“My personal favorite is something I call ‘Special Doggy,’” says Drake. “I’m on my stomach, totally flat on a bed with my legs squeezed together. The man enters from behind and thrusts not only in, but up.”
Toys to Increase Her Pleasure
Also, consider incorporating more toys into your bedroom play. The right sex toy can bridge the gap, so to speak, and bring more pleasure to both of you. If your penis is on the small side, these products can help make up for that in different ways.
The Liberator Sex Position Wedge
Liberator
One of the biggest problems for little guys is that they slip out. “Minimize that slippage by placing her in an ideal position that allows for deep penetration,” says House. “The Liberator will allow her to comfortably lay back with him kneeling on his knees, his penis perfectly lined up to her entrance. That way he can be in control of how much he pulls out with each thrust, allowing him to pulse inside of her without falling out.”
$109.99 at LoveHoney.com
Charged OHare
Screaming O
A vibrating cock ring could be just the thing you need to amp up the pleasure for everyone involved. Not only will it help you stay hard by constricting blood flow, if your partner has a clit, a ring like the Screaming O Charged OHare will also do double duty by vibrating against it.
$62.06 at ScreamingO.com
Lovehoney Mega Mighty 3 Extra Inches Penis Extender with Ball Loop
Lovehoney
Maybe you’ve decided that what you’re working with just won’t cut it, no matter what positions you try — and if so, maybe a penis extender is what you need? This top-rated one from Lovehoney comes in clear, pink and black and adds both length and girth, helping you fulfill that big-penis fantasy you’ve been craving.
$39.95 at Lovehoney.com
All illustrations by Carleena Ranger.
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