I’ve been seeing this amazing guy for a few weeks and he tells me he has strong feelings for me and would like a relationship.
He’s The One in my eyes but there is a catch. He’s planning to move to Germany in a year to pursue his dream job. But nothing is set in stone, so it’s bit confusing.
I want to go out with him but I also don’t want to get hurt if he chooses to go to Germany. What do I do?
He probably was planning a move to Germany but he might fall madly in love with you and it will change things.
I think you have a right to ask how definite this move is because you’re wary of getting involved too deeply if it’s inevitable you’ll have to split up.
However, I’m tempted to say if you really like him, go for it and things will sort themselves out one way or the other.
Yes, you might end up hurt if he goes and doesn’t want to take you with him or carry on the relationship long distance.
But maybe his reluctance to be pinned down on his plans is because he wants to see where things go with you.
All of us have plans but sometimes they change when we meet someone we like.
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