A woman who dates older, wealthy men has revealed what it’s like to be courted, romanced and even bedded by her ‘sugar daddies’.
Justine is what’s known as a ‘sugar baby’ – a younger woman who sees older men for companionship and is often rewarded in a material way, with holidays, gifts and even money.
One of a growing number of sugar babies, Justine insists that she is “not a sex worker”, although she admits whether she is or not is “a controversial topic”.
The 26-year-old, who is from Belgium, works as a primary school teacher, she tells Mirror.co.uk .
“I love my job and the children that I have to guide and educate. However, on the weekend I am looking to escape a little bit from normal life. Some of the finer things.
“Of course no one at work knows about it. I think I would get fired because, if I may say, they are not open minded enough nor ready for this yet.
“My closest friends know what’s going on in my life and we bounce and share experiences – they are into sugar dating as well.
“For sure I am not going to be forever young, and therefore I will have to settle down at some point.
“Maybe it will be with one of my sugar daddies, who knows?
“Right now I am not thinking too much about it and moreover I have the children that I see everyday at work and makes my heart melt.
“Later on perhaps I will have my own.
“I don’t want to pick up some random guys in a club that I don’t know anything about to do so. I feel safe, desired and respected with my sugar daddies.”
Getting into being a sugar baby wasn’t Justine’s plan, but: “I started Googling and I stumbled upon Sugardaters.com – this concept where the guys who are signing up on this website want to spoil younger women with gifts, clothes and dinners. It really appealed to me.”
She now reveals she is seeing two men , both British.
Although she is keen to keep her identity secret, Justine has shared some pictures from the exotic holidays she has been on. Here she tells her story in her own words.
“While my friends are getting married and get pregnant, I just want to have fun to the maximum.
“Daniel and Robert are respectively seven and 22 years older than me.
“They are quite different. Daniel is a really funny guy. He won some money playing poker and is thoroughly enjoying life.
“He takes me to parties and once we went to a party on a yacht. That was fantastic.”
“[Robert is] spontaneous, but calm and quiet. When I told him I want to see more of the world and that I have travelled little, he immediately arranged a trip to New York, so sweet.
“I’ve receive almost everything from my men.
“They always surprise me with make up, a Kate Spade bag, an iPhone 6, a Marc Jacobs wallet.
“I am completely in love with the bunny that I got from Robert and he got another surprise for me – we are going to the Lion King musical which I adore, as VIP guests.
“Sometimes I also get money, depending on what I need, from £200 to £500.
“Thanks to my sugar daddies anything can happen almost in a heart beat – I get to see places that I would not even dare to dream about.”
“I grew up in a single parent home with my mum and money was a struggle.
“The latest clothes and makeup that my friends had were simply out of my league. I even had side jobs in the supermarket to afford a decent life, not a luxurious one.
“My parents divorced when I was very young and I have barely even seen my father.
“Sometimes it feels like I didn’t even have one. Maybe this the reason why now I date older men? Perhaps, perhaps not.
“I consider both of my sugar daddies my boyfriends, and I do not see anyone else besides the two of them.
“There is no jealousy because we are pretty open minded about how our relationship should work and our expectations.
“It might sound that they are sharing me, but if the truth be told, I like to be shared between these two incredible handsome and rich men.
“We share almost the same mindset especially when it comes to sex. From my side, I want to explore this field as much as possible and therefore an experienced man is exactly what I am looking for.
“We actually sometimes meet all three of us. I just want to make it clear that of course we do have sex, but it is not like I am getting paid for it.
“I have sex with my sugar daddies because I am very attracted to both of them and because I really want to discover both the male and female body to its maximum. I am their little fantasy and escape. I would say that they are the same for me.
“What they are providing for me is a luxurious life. The older sugar daddy transfers money into my account without even dating with him. He just wants to make sure I have everything I need.
“I don’t get paid per date, and I am not getting paid as an overall. I just get lots of support and I am being very spoiled.
“Before, I thought it was a sort of prostitution because I suspected that many dates probably surely end with sex.
“But this doesn’t mean we are doing it for money, we are doing it because we want to. The chemistry is there and you already established a relationship with your sugar daddy.
“I certainly do not feel pressure and is also the last thing I want. As soon as something sexual from me expected, without me wanting it, instantly I quit.
“I would like people to understand that being a sugar babe is not the same as being a prostitute.”
The names have been changed in this article.