It’s Friday night, and you’re finally home after a looong work week. You want (and tbh deserve) to blow off some steam, but you just can’t Netflix and chill with your S.O. again. It’s time to try something new, and that’s where sex games for couples comes in.
Okay, but what the heck is a “sex game”? Well, they’re similar to traditional games, just, ya know, sexy. In fact, Amy Levine, sex coach and certified sexuality educator in New York City, says a sex game can be pretty much anything that’s “fun, safe, and consensual.” And unlike rewatching The Office for the millionth time (don’t @ me), sex games can actually help you and your partner bond on multiple levels because they’re all about the journey (think, teasing and foreplay) not just the end goal of orgasm. “It’s dedicated time to focus on each other’s wants, needs, desires, and curiosities,” Levine explains. “Playing a game allows you to be present.”
All that will make even the laziest night in with your partner super hot. Surprise your S.O. with one (or more) of these 30 best sex games for couples, and they might even let you win.
Talk, Flirt, Dare
Need a reason to try this sex game? How about 345 reasons? That’s how many five-star reviews Talk, Flirt, Dare has received on Amazon. Yeah, it’s that good. The game offers three levels—talk, flirt, and dare, obvs—so you can choose the level of closeness in your game. Talk is perfect for parties, Flirt can help take a new relationship to the next level, and Dare will reignite your connection in a long-term relationship.
All Night Love Affair Dice And Card Game
When you want to spice things up but you’re low on ideas, this game will get you out of your rut. Roll the dice, pick a card, and do what the card instructs. After a couple rounds of bondage, sex-toy play, and licking to get you started, you’ll forget you were even playing a game.
O-ing Tower Love & Naughty Stacking Tower
This game is definitely the Jenga for adults. The classic wood stacking game has gotten a sexy makeover with this O-ing Tower. It has a total of 54 blocks with a combination of 27 ‘Truth or Dare’ questions, as well as 27 tasks/challenges that your sig O (or you) has to perform.
Nookii: The Hot Game for Passionate Lovers
This best-selling sexy card game lets you play your way around your partner’s body in three different ways over three tiers of intensity. Warm up with the “Mmm” cards based around touching and teasing, then move on to the “Ooh” cards detailing mini role-play scenarios. Finish (literally) with the “Aah” cards. This game also comes with a blindfold (score), and you have to complete each action within a certain time limit, so… pressure’s on.
This card game comes complete with ideas to “break the routine” for both inside and outside of the bedroom. From date plans to sweet ways to show your love (like leaving a loving message where only your partner can find it), these suggestions are sure to keep your flame burning bright.
Touch & Tell
Touch & Tell
This sex game for couples is guaranteed to tap into both the mental and physical part of your relationship. With 250 cards telling you what to “touch” or “tell,” it will bring you closer in no time. “I was having issues in my relationship. This game was fun and helpful. It brought the spark back along with increased intimacy,” one Amazon reviewer wrote.
Truth or Dare For Couples
Pack this compact card game in your suitcase and bring it on your next couples getaway for a vacation you’ll never forget. It contains 50 “naughty” truths and 50 “challenging” dares, so you know it’ll turn up the heat in your relationship—no matter where you are.
Cosmo Kama Sutra The Sex Deck
Cosmo’s card deck features 99 positions with illustrations and instructions to get your imagination going. Plus, it offers 12 bonus “lust lessons” to help you master some extra bonus moves.
This spicier version of Charades is guaranteed to get some laughs. According to the description, this dirty version is all about “suggestive innuendos” that’ll get things going between you and your partner. It comes with 100 cards and six charades on each card. Up for some group fun? You can play Dirty Charades with up to four people, so invite another person or couple to join in on the fun.
Position Of The Day Playing Cards
This deck of playing cards features 52 different positions for you and your partner to try out. One Amazon reviewer loves this game so much she’s made up her own rules: “Has a variety of positions [I’ve] never seen. I make up my own game.”
Strip Blackjack Sex Card Game
Turn your bedroom into the world’s most exclusive casino with this game of strip blackjack. It’s pretty similar to the OG version, just naked (a.k.a. better). Not only does it make getting undressed way more fun, but it’s all about empowering you to tease your partner with a slow and sensual reveal.
These cards are all about getting the conversation started between you and your partner to increase your intimacy. Take it from its 4.5-star average rating on Amazon—it’s a good pick. It encourages couples to “speak your truth, share your past, and plan for your future,” with prompts and questions like “Describe our first kiss,” and “What famous person would you want a hall pass to sleep with?”
How Game Are You?
How Game Are You?
This sex game for couples comes with 203 cards and a blindfold, with plenty of questions and conversation starters to get things started between you and your partner. (You can also play with up to four people). The game has cards in three categories: Truth or Dare, Question & Answer, and Touch & Trust, for a mix of conversation and touching.
Role Playing Dice
With six different dice: two with positions, two with body parts, and two with verbs (like lick), so you can mix and match any way you prefer. It’s guaranteed to get you and your partner to try some new moves.
469 Fun Sex Questions
You won’t run out of ideas with these questions. They’re designed to help you and your partner talk all things sex. The concept: When you feel more comfortable talking about sex together, you’ll enjoy sex more. So get to asking!
Sometimes, the “sexy” dares in other games just aren’t your thing. So before you play, set some personal ground rules on what kind of cards (if any) you reserve the right to put back. Then, you and your S.O. can take turns drawing cards and selecting words or phrases that create fun and romantic dares to act out, all the while dueling over who will perform the dare. The game includes hundreds of different words and phrases, so the combinations are basically endless.
Would you rather…?: The Naughty Conversation Game for Couples
The classic “Would You Rather…?” game takes a turn for the sexy in this edition. With questions like: “Would you rather… Watch your partner have a hot and heavy make out session with someone you don’t know, or listen to them have loud, wild sex behind closed doors with someone you do know?” and “Would you rather… Have sex with a screamer, or have sex with a biter?”, you’ll get to know each other’s deepest desires…and quick.
Adult Loaded Questions
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If you’re looking to bring some laughter into your foreplay, this is the game for you. It has a whopping 308 questions total, and you can play with up to six people, so make it a party.
Some of the questions include: What is an instant mood killer? What word sounds dirty…but isn’t? What TV show would you watch if it included full nudity?
Bottle Cap Striptease Darts
If you love the bar game Darts, you’ll dig this magnetic version that’s all about the strip tease. The section your bottle cap lands on determines which article of clothing has to come off. So, flex your competitive side until…well, you know.
The Discovery Game
This game might’ve been designed for married couples, but anyone can play it since it’s all about your relationship. If you feel like you and your partner have fallen into a bit of a rut, the Discovery Game helps you rekindle your passion for each other by overcoming “intimacy obstacles.” Granted, it’s not the sexiest sex game on the market, but you’ll likely still end up in bed together after playing so… win-win.
Monogamy Board Game
Monopoly—but for sex? It sounds a little (okay, a lot) corny, but as one reviewer wrote, “OMG we had soooo much fun playing this. Definitely reignites the passion in a relationship.” The game includes over 400 seductive ideas and 50 fantasies over three levels of progressive play: intimate, passionate, and steamy. “It’s very challenging to make it to the end of the game, but very worth it as the winner gets to pick their ‘fantasy,'” the reviewer added.
Erotic Massage Deck
Few things can get you in the mood for sex quite like a massage. These 50 erotic massage cards offer step-by-step instructions for sensually running your oiled fingers across your partner’s back and get them in the ~mood~.
This card game is more strategic than other sex games, so if you and your partner need some intellectual stimulation before some, uh, physical stimulation, look no further. Use battle cards to compete for reward cards containing three dares to choose from. Whoever collects the most reward cards wins—and gets to pick an extra special final dare.
NAKED! Strip Poker Card Game
Who doesn’t love a good game of poker? Spice things up with this version of strip poker that has different articles of clothing on each card to take your game beyond the card table and back to the bedroom.
Path to Pleasure
Buckle up, this game promises to take you and your S.O. on “a journey of sexual discovery.” Behind every square, you’ll find a sexy question or sensual act designed to bring you two closer together. It’s kind of like “Guess Who?” but way, way hotter.
Tie Me Up Weekend in Bed Bondage Sex Game
If you and your partner are into BDSM, or are interested in trying it, this sex game for couples comes with everything you need to explore bondage as a beginner. Besides the necessary equipment, the game features 40 instructional cards that tell you exactly what to do (think: “Blindfold your partner, and use an ice cube to arouse them”).
Foreplay in a Row
The name kinda says it all, right? This sexy twist on Connect Four is all about foreplay. The rules are the same as when you played as a kid, except each circle has a foreplay activity on it. Don’t be surprised if you’re in bed before you even get three in a row…
Ultimate Roll Bedroom Sex Dice
An oldie but a goodie, sex dice are a classic—and super easy—sex game you can play over and over again. Each of the four dice covers a sexy topic: foreplay, oral, props, and sex positions. Roll all four at once to start the game and see where it leads you. (Hint: It’s somewhere good.)
Okay, so Twister technically isn’t a sex game…until you up the stakes. Every time you or your partner falls, remove a piece of clothing. Voila—Strip Twister! Not only will this game give you major childhood nostalgia, but it’ll help you and your partner get flexible for what comes after…
Sweaty Mess Sex Games
This book has over 50 sex games for couples including step by step instructions, variations, and explanations of the psychology behind each one courtesy of certified sex coach Amber Cole. And if that wasn’t enough, she also offers additional tips and advice, including how to talk dirty and how to tease over text.