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Whether you want to reveal your hidden kinky streak to a new lover or just spice up that humdrum sex life, getting kinky can be great and have her eating out of your…erm…hands. Get it wrong or go too fast too soon and she’ll be looking at you like you’re a freak. And changing her mobile number. Here’s the first of my two part guide on how to spice up your sex life and turn her into a naughty girl.
Introducing a bit of porn to spice things up can be fun and very stimulating. The sounds and visuals of other people having sex can get her going too. Plus she’s more likely to put some extra effort in to ‘keep up’ with the big bosomed blonde on screen! Introduce it right and you can both fully enjoy it.
Firstly, get things heated up. If she’s turned on and foreplay has started she’s less likely to slap you and run off crying when you bring it up. So really set the scene, pay extra attention to her and get her really aroused so she’ll be like putty in your very skilled hands. Then introduce it. Putting it on half way through a blow job will not go down well. Not only will it be a shock, it’ll make her feel like she’s not enough to please you. Ask her if she’s ever watched porn or slip in a suggestion to spice things up — that way you can gauge her reaction and act accordingly — i.e. pour her more wine.
If you get a green light that’s great — anything but a clearly negative reaction (running out screaming “you pervert” etc.) you can work with. Just be subtle and slightly blasé about it. Have it ready so you just pick up the remote and press play. Your attention hasn’t shifted from her and you haven’t left her to go cold and change her mind.
Before you pick the movie, think about exactly what you are putting on. Start soft — I mean the porn. Put on a “soft” boy-girl or girl-girl movie. Save the acronyms for later, or never – DP, ATM; best kept at the back of the cupboard. Most importantly, pay full attention to her, she needs to feel you want her more than the porn, make out it’s just a background stimulant and you don’t really care.
So you’ve got her watching porn with you. Good work. Mess it up and I guarantee you won’t be watching it with her again, nor having sex with her again for that matter.
Jump around excitedly leaving her sat there getting very turned off while you pick a film. Show her your extensive porn collection. Pretend you just happen to have one or two lying around, your mate must have left them. That 300-strong porn library might impress your mates but it won’t impress her. Go hardcore straight away — save that for later. You don’t really know how she’ll take it and putting on Rio Orgy 4 could see her running and telling all her friends about you and not in a good way. Don’t get her to act out what’s on screen — yet.
If you want to spice up your sex life by combining your two favourite things, you’ll need to ease her in gently so to speak.
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