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You’re crazy about your latest girl and things are going well. She’s hot (naturally), super cool (all your mates approve) and she’s confident (in other words, she doesn’t hassle you and gives you space). Then bam! Suddenly, everything changes and she goes “all crazy” on you and you’re reminded why you might give up on women. She’s needy. She’s clingy. In short, she’s driving you absolutely nuts and you’re wondering what happened to the great girlfriend you used to brag about.
Guys, in most instances, this is not a bait and switch — we promise. Usually this is a simple case of your girlfriend not feeling secure in the relationship. Yes, we said simple. In fact, there are five relatively easy things you can do to make her feel secure in your relationship and make her actually believe you are still into her (and to keep her from being needy, clingy and crazy).
1- Do what you say you will do
When you first met her, you were in full pursuit mode. She is hot and smart and you wanted her to be yours. If you said you were going to call, you did. If you said you were going to text, you did. Once the relationship solidifies and you aren’t always as good at doing what you say you will do. Of course she notices. A woman equates doing what you say you will do with interest in her. Keep doing what you say you will do and she’ll keep thinking (and more importantly actually believing) you’re into her.
2- Randomly clue her in
Share what you’re thinking at spontaneous times. If she starred in your dreams last night, tell her. If you are thinking about her instead of working on that report for work, shoot her an e-mail saying so. You don’t have to do this all the time, or even frequently. The random disclosure of such information will be a gold mine to her! She’ll keep thinking (and more importantly actually believing) you’re into her.
3- Not out of sight, out of mind
One of a woman’s greatest fears in a relationship is once she is out of your sight she is out of your mind — especially when you’re out with the boys. Most women have no problem with guys’ night (we want our girl time too) but, we get nervous if you’re out all night and we don’t hear from you. We know you’re not like us (when we get with our girlfriends, you are the primary topic of conversation), so sometimes our imaginations run wild and we fear you don’t remember us while throngs of hot women hit on you.
There are a few more ways to reform your needy girlfriend you’re going to want to check out…