Handling Her Insecurities
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We can all spot her from a mile away because the second she opens her mouth, we get a splitting headache. You may know her because she’s dating one your friends or because she incessantly calls the office asking to speak to her boyfriend. The culprit? The annoying, suspicious girlfriend.
why do suspicious girlfriends exist?
Annoying girlfriends are generally insecure women. They constantly look for attention — a byproduct of their desire for affection — and for some kind of recognition in a world that doesn’t give them any.
We’ve all heard about “annoying girlfriends” — that is, girls who feel the need to check up on their boyfriends every minute of the day, questioning their every move, asking irrelevant questions, and making their lives miserable. Although they are well aware of their behaviour, they continue to do it since their boyfriends put up with their insistent queries.
However, that isn’t the whole truth. These women — the kind that men consider annoying or constantly suspicious — are often this way because they are insecure within the relationship.
Of course, there are women who were born to nag and add an extra coat of stress to our already stressful lives. Most women, however, are not maddening by nature, but become so when their partners fuel their insecurities. Women can be very complicated, but the reasoning behind their feelings is often simplistic: They want to be loved. This feeling ranges from the strongest of feminists to the meekest of shy girls. Most women need validation in life, and the best way to validate them is to let them know that they’re cared for.
Dealing with a suspicious girlfriend has something to do with giving her some love…