Rhian Sugden: The Art Of Flirting
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Page 3 girl Rhian Sugden made the papers for another reason recently after it was revealed that she’d been having a flirtatious text and Twitter relationship with Radio One’s Vernon Kay. The lanky Family Fortunes presenter is now in the doghouse with his missus, Tess Daly, although apparently nothing more untoward happened other than a bit of “harmless” flirting between the two. We all know where we want flirting to lead — so how can you improve your skills?
If any woman knows about the power of flirting it’s Rhian Sugden, so AskMen.com did the honourable thing and called her up to get some flirting tips from a female perspective.
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Every man has flirting potential
Generally, women will take flirting the right way, provided there’s a level of interest there and you’re not being ridiculously offensive. Flirting is all about technique, and I think that all guys are capable of being good flirts — a lot depends on your approach, though. I find British guys are more full-on with flirtatious texts and that kind of thing. For some reason they tend to be more creative. But when it comes to real-life situations, guys from other nations are much better because they tend to be more confident and up-front.
Confidence is key
I find that people can see right through you if you’re lacking in confidence, and then the whole impact of your flirting ends up being compromised. Acting too interested, being over-flattering via text messaging or asking for pictures is a big mistake in my book unless you have known each other a while. And being cheesy with the flirting is out the door with me — I hate that. I think if you can get a girl going, have a bit of banter with her, and make her laugh, it most certainly can make you more attractive to her.
Get the tone right
Personally, teasing gets more of a reaction out of me than any other approach and I think a lot of women are the same. The odd compliment is nice, but when a woman doesn’t quite know where she fully stands, it keeps her on her toes. Don’t be predictable, otherwise you’ll come across as being just the same as all the other guys — tease her a little bit and it’ll make her want to chase you that little bit more. For example, if a guy I like says he’s busy it will drive me insane and I’ll be thinking: “Is he actually busy? Or is he playing hard to get?” In a weird way, it’s going to make me want him more.
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