When it comes to you and your partner’s pleasure, there’s no reason to play by any kind of gender binary rules. While countless brands fall back on the basic hyper femme clit stimulator design or a bit more masculine penis ring, more and more of our favorite sex toy retailers recognize that sex and gender are two totally different things and that the vibe for our vibes (and other pleasure helpers) don’t need to feel like a throw-back to the gender essentialist toy aisle jaunts of years past. Because growth.
If we’re being real, any sex toy can be a gender neutral sex toy (if you believe in yourself, it’s made of body-safe materials and you’re game to play around) and the realms of impact/sensation play are definitely seen as unisex endeavors. But it sure helps to know that there are some brands out there looking to make sure that everyone feels included and seen in the sex toy ecosystem — whether you’re trans or non-binary, or just not looking at your sex life in terms of “for him” and “for her” labels.
No matter what parts you or your partner(s) might have or the parts you like to play in your sex lives, there are plenty of toys that are versatile, accessible and really freakin fun for all parties involved. Read on for just a few of our favorite gender neutral sex toys and see if there’s anything that might become your new favorite toy.