Are You A Fun Guy? This Is What That Means, According To Women
There’s no single “formula” to a perfect relationship. But there have been a number of studies on what makes long-term couples successful – and the ability to have fun and be playful with one another is up there on the priority list.
But what makes a man “fun” to women? Studies show that one of the best indicators of romantic connection is if two people are spotted laughing together; so how can a guy make sure he possesses that all-important “fun” trait?
Thankfully, women have answered the question “What makes a guy fun to women” on guyQ, AskMen’s Q&A platform, after an anonymous user was curious to know.
I want to know what makes a guy fun to women. Not nice or funny, but fun. What does he do that makes him fun compared to other guys?
Here is what women had to say:
Not too serious… Can laugh at himself and just relax. Women like it when men can just let their hair down sometimes and just be themselves without all the BS.
Like most things in life, it’s not so simple. Different people will find different things fun. An extrovert will find different things fun to an introvert, an upper-class woman may find a man who foxhunts with her “fun.” A working-class woman may find a night round the pub singing songs fun.
The trick is to cultivate the kind of fun you genuinely have fun doing, and find a woman who shares that. Fun is often contagious.
Don’t be anything you are not, it will just make you miserable long-term. But it doesn’t hurt to say yes to new things and don’t worry so much about saying yes to new things. I would rather be at a club dancing with a guy who isn’t the world’s best dancer than a guy who wouldn’t even get out on the floor.
At the end of the day, a fun guy is simply someone who doesn’t take himself too seriously and who is able to be spontaneous from time to time. If you feel like spontaneity doesn’t come naturally to you, you can always start small: Suggest going to a new spot for drinks or try a new activity with your friends first (it’s less intimidating than trying a new activity on a date).