These Eight Bedroom Positions Have One Goal – To Give You Ultimate Pleasure
It goes without saying that sex should always be about both partners having a good time. It’s really only fun when it’s something both of you are enjoying — a lot.
That said, sometimes it’s a special occasion and your partner may want to try a position that is extra-awesome for you. Whether it’s your birthday, anniversary, or you got a promotion at work, sometimes they just want to do something special just for you. And who are you to say no? While this may mean an opportunity to try something previously off limits (like a threesome), it can also mean that rare treat.
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So, your special night of you-fun may mean an extra-special blowjob — and there’s no doubt that’s special! — or that being the night you try something kinkier, like role-play, for the first time. That’s great. It may also be the time you go for anal sex, or try sex in the shower or car sex, or somewhere more adventurous. That can be super fun as well. But it doesn’t end there.
There’s lots of ways to make always-great sex even greater, and there are some specific sex positions that, when explored, can lead to extra excitement. There are various ways to look at what a specifically male pleasure position may mean to you — for starters, though, it should be one that gives greater than average physical pleasure or one that’s especially exciting. From there, the possibilities are endless, but here are some great ways to get started! â¨
1. Work Out
Testosterone-boosting is not the stuff of myth. Whether it’s playing some sports, hitting the gym to work out, watching a football game, or doing something else that you define as manly. Whatever works for you — with more testosterone in your bloodstream, the sex will simply be better. â¨
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2. Go Slow
Believe it or not, sex can be more amazing for you just by slowing down. Amp up your orgasm by letting yourself get to the edge, slowing down and pausing, and then starting up again. And don’ t forget to breathe. Breathing naturally will speed up when we are about to orgasm. By letting yourself slow down and just simply breathe, you’ll control our orgasm. That’ll ultimately make it even stronger. â¨
3. Different Strokes
Different men will have different preferences, of course. This can mean exploring new areas that may uniquely work for you. For instance, have her take a moment to touch that taint — that’s the stretch of skin between your balls and your ass — and see the pleasure it can bring.
But it can also mean bringing new variants to what you may consider a “basic” position. “Missionary position variants give close body-to-body contact, the ability for a guy to be substantially in control of speed and other elements of the sexual encounter, and fairly deep penetration,” says Carol Queen, Ph.D., Good Vibrations staff sexologist.
“Depth is definitely a plus for some guys, and with his partner’s legs over his arms or shoulders, missionary becomes a deeper position. But the greatest number of nerve endings on the penis is around the coronal ridge, colloquially known as the cock head; for this kind of stimulation, more pressure or tightness is a good idea. Try the missionary variant where his partner crosses her legs to add more pressure,” â¨
4. Enjoy The View
The sexy views of doggy style and (especially) reverse cowgirl can be great for ass men, who get to view (and touch) the ass as much as they like. “When physical limitations do not intrude, there’s also a lot to be said for the excitement of lifting his partner up (legs around his waist for stability, and up against a wall for even more stability),” says Queen. â¨
5. Deeper Penetration
Positions that tend to allow men full control of penetration (this can mean depth, rhythm, etc.) tend to give men more pleasure. “This typically means that rear-entry positions allow for the most access as he is in control and her body allows deeper penetration in these positions, whether it’s doggy style or some other variation,” says Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a licensed marriage and sex therapist and resident sex expert for www.AdamandEve.com.
1. Side Lotus
A deeper, more intense penetration can lead to greater pleasure. In this one, he gets complete penetration while being able to manipulate her hips and legs as one unit creating an almost rocking motion. “She wraps her legs around you, hooking her ankles if she can. Facing one another, you both recline to one side,” says Dr. Kat.
We want depth of penetration but we also want the pleasure of anticipation. That’s where teasing comes in. “In this position, the woman gets to pleasure and tease the man while at the same time, he can thrust as hard or soft as he wants from below by simply pulling her down close to his chest. Both get extreme pleasure and some control,” says Briana Banks, the longest contracted Vivid star, and behind only Jenna Jameson, the most published adult magazine model ever. â¨
3. Reverse Mantis
In all positions, their pleasure threshold is partially dependent on, simply, what we may be most into. For this one, his ass is accessible to her for full anal and/or prostate play. He gets to enjoy a whole new angle of penetration while also having access to her feet if he’s into a little foot/shrimping play. “She lies flat on her back. He mounts her in the reverse and lies flat on top of her with his head at her feet. He inserts his erect penis into her vagina by scooting back towards her,” says Dr. Kat. â¨
4. Lap Dance
In this situation, she’s treating you to something extra special — and that is your own private lap dance! “Have her take it slow while she approaches you and starts to straddle you, as you sit in a chair or on the couch. You can enjoy the show and get very hands-on,” says Weedmark.
5. Scissor Missionary
In this “scissor” spin on mission, start by putting one leg on your shoulder, while holding the opposing leg toward the ground/bed. “This allows for deeper penetration and limits your partners ability to move away from the action,” says Derrick Pierce, an adult actor and director, boot camp instructor and personal trainer. â¨
6. Girl On Top
Whether she’s facing forward or reverse, the great view is one of that aspects with the capacity to make this position particularly enjoyable. “With her on top most men report lasting longer, making this the perfect position to extend the pleasure for you both,” says Tristan Weedmark, global passion ambassador for We-Vibe. â¨
7. Dragon Fly
This position is a particularly great for men who like a lot of penetration visuals. It gives him a front row view of everything while also giving him access to her clitoris and breasts. “He lies seated with his legs out with his weight on his arms behind him. She sits facing him with one or both legs over his shoulders,” says Dr. Kat. â¨
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8. Doggy Style
In doggy position, you get a bird’s-eye view of the action and get pleasure by giving pleasure. “Plus, you get to control the depth and pace, and your hands are free to reach around to stimulate her clitoris or breasts,” says Weedmark.
All illustrations by Carlee Ranger.
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