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10 Fun, Creative or Kinky Male-Male Sex Positions

Best Gay Sex Positions

10 Fun, Creative or Kinky Male-Male Sex Positions

If you’re single, how do you prevent awkward and boring sex from ruining chemistry with that really cute guy from Grindr?

If you’re in a longterm relationship, how do you keep the sex fun and exciting with each anniversary? Even the most seasoned casanovas need to know their fair share of sex positions to keep things interesting between the sheets, which is why we’ve put together this handy (and illustrated) guide to the best gay ones.

Before we get started, it’s important to establish some gay sex ground rules:

The reality is that anal sex can be messy. Bottoms: Wash yourself out with an enema or simply using soap and water before sex to make things as clean as possible. Tops: If it gets a little messy down there, be cool about it! It’s really no big deal … sh*t happens. Literally.
Always practice safer sex, which includes using condoms and plenty of water-based lube, and getting tested regularly for STIs and HIV.
Consent is a necessary part of any sexual interaction. Both partners must clearly give their consent prior to any sexual activity.

Now that we’ve got that covered, it’s time to learn more about the best gay sex positions.

Missionary

Best Gay Sex Positions

A classic position for straight couples, missionary is pretty common for gay partners as well. In this position, the bottom lies on his back with his legs spread apart in the air while the active partner lies on top so the couple is face-to-face. Penetration from this angle allows for intimate eye contact and kissing, and the bottom can wrap his legs around the top to anchor thrusting. While not necessarily the kinkiest position, missionary is great for more inexperienced or vanilla couples. If you slip a pillow under the small of the bottom’s back for extra support, they can lay comfortably without having to strain to keep their legs in the air.

Doggy Style

Best Gay Sex Positions

Another classic gay sex position is doggy style. While potentially less intimate than missionary, doggy style allows you and your partner to explore each other in a new way. Doggy style really puts the top in control, so it’s the perfect position for more dominant tops and submissive bottoms. In doggy style, the bottom gets on all fours while the top kneels behind him. Holding on to the bottom’s hips for support, the top enters the bottom from behind. Penetration from this angle can feel harder and deeper for bottoms, and doggy style can be better for prostate stimulation for some men. Doggy style is good for couples of all experience levels, but it can require extra stamina from tops.

Cowboy

Best Gay Sex Positions

For couples with more dominate bottoms and tops who like to take it easy, cowboy is the ideal gay sex position. In the cowboy position, the top sits or lies back while the bottom straddles him across his pelvis facing forward, either in a kneel or squatting position. The cowboy position gives the bottom control over penetration, which can help to achieve prostate stimulation. The top can also thrust into the bottom from this position, shifting the dynamic between dominate and submissive partner. Cowboy is a good position for couples of all experience levels, but bottoms should be prepared for a workout.

Reverse Cowboy

Best Gay Sex Positions

Similar to cowboy, reverse cowboy puts the bottom in control. In this position, the top sits or lies down, while the bottom straddles him across his lap facing towards the top’s feet in a kneeling or squatting position. Again, this is a great way for a bottom to control his prostate stimulation. If you’re a more flexible bottom, change up the position by laying back on top of your partner’s chest, allowing them to take control and increasing your intimate physical connection.

The Bodyguard

Best Gay Sex Positions

If the traditional horizontal positions have lost their excitement, try a standing position. Standing positions allow both partners an increased range of motion compared to horizontal positions—you can move together, or one can remain still while the other establishes and varies the rhythm. The most classic standing position, sometimes known as “the bodyguard,” is when the bottom faces away from the top and the top enters from behind. For anchorage, the bottom should hold onto a nearby wall, table, or other surface. Because the bodyguard position is more accommodating in small spaces or in the outdoors, they’re great for more adventurous couples who want to take sex out of the bedroom.

Pirate’s Bounty

Best Gay Sex Positions

The flashy name may make this position sound more complicated than it is, but the pirate’s bounty is a must-have in any gay sex wheelhouse. In this position, the bottom lies down his back, shifting his pelvis so that one leg is down and the other is up in the air. The active partner kneels, facing the bottom, and puts the bottom’s elevate leg on his shoulder as he enters him. This angle allows for a deep penetration. If the bottom is flexible, the top can push the elevated leg towards the bottom’s head for an even deeper and more intimate experience.

Spooning

Best Gay Sex Positions

Spooning is one of the most intimate gay sex positions. Both partners lay on their sides, the top on the outside as the “big spoon.” The top enters the bottom from behind, with the bottom’s top leg elevated to allow for entry. For an extra deep penetration, the top can hook his elbow under the bottom’s elevated knee for easier access. This position involves a lot of close body contact, making it a great option for couples looking for an intimate and sensual sexual encounter.

Suspended Congress

Best Gay Sex Positions

For the more adventurous and active gay couples out there, suspended congress is an exciting and erotic challenge. This position is designed to get you out of bed and work on your cardio too. In this position, the top stands and picks up the bottom, who wraps his arms around the top’s neck for support. The top then enters the bottom from this position, holding the bottom’s thighs in his arms to support the bottom’s hips against his pelvis. For extra support while thrusting, put the bottom’s back against a wall or other solid structure. For more fit couple, try a free-standing suspended congress for a real full-body workout.

Arch

Best Gay Sex Positions

While not necessarily the ideal position for less experienced bottoms, the arch position is great for gay couples looking to explore sex from a new perspective. To get into the arch position, bottoms lay face up and lifts his hips upward, while keeping his feet and the back of his neck planted on the floor. The top kneels facing the bottom, entering him by placing his pelvis underneath the bottom’s raised hips. This position requires some serious back flexibility in terms of the bottom’s role, which is why it’s not recommended for the inexperienced, but this angle of penetration can be intensely stimulating and pleasurable for both tops and bottoms.

Bumper Cars

Best Gay Sex Positions

Another more advanced position, bumper cars is recommended for active and flexible couples because it requires some coordination to pull off smoothly. In this position, both partners are on all fours facing away from each other, the top above and the bottom below. Think of it as reverse-doggy style: the bottom’s position is the same, but the top is penetrating from the other way around. The difficulty with this position is that the top can’t necessarily see or control their thrusting as clearly compared to traditional doggy style, so more skillful coordination may be required. However, as the saying goes, the bigger the risk the higher the reward: this position can be really exciting and erotic way for both partners to liven up your sex routine.

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Source: AskMen

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