My problem is a big one. It’s most men’s dream to have a big penis, but for me it’s a nightmare.
Thinking back, I always knew it wasn’t average from when the older lads used to comment on it when in the showers after sport. It even got its own nickname.
Great you would think, eh? Well, no, because I’m still a virgin at 31.
The closest a woman gets is putting a hand on it and once an escort lady refunded my money and left. Please help. It’s making me very unhappy.
I think the real issue for you is that you’re still a virgin. I think being teased at school can have a huge impact on you later in life.
That kind of teasing or ‘banter’ stays with you and can be a kind of block to what you want to achieve.
So, what I’m saying is, OK, you might have a big one, but it might not be as much of a problem as you think.
Maybe you’ve built it up to be a larger issue than it is.
And maybe you’re not letting anyone get closer than putting a hand on it because you’re the one who’s scared.
I honestly think that when you meet the right girl and feel really comfortable with her, you’ll sort it out.
It’ll be something you can deal with together. And that might involve some counselling or sex therapy.
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