Your Sex File

July 13, 2015 July 10, 2021

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Creating Your Sex File

Since our erotic minds respond strongly to visual stimulation, why not make that boring old filing cabinet sizzle by creating a brand new file labeled, “sex”? Clip and save anything that represents or symbolizes the experiences, feelings or objects that you feel are important to your romantic and sexual pleasure. Should you not have a filing cabinet, consider using a covered box, an unused photo album or even a scrapbook instead. Of course, for those of you who are more technically-inclined, you can simply create a file on your computer or a private board on a site like Pinterest. The point is to create a something that can visually feed your sexual desires and cravings.

Be creative and have fun. Use photographs, magazine cutouts, pictures from the internet; whatever inspires and speaks directly to your inner sex god or goddess. And since words also trigger erotic images and emotions, be sure to include in your sex file any favourite song lyrics, movie and book quotes or other thoughts and phrases that you find especially romantic and sensual.

While crafting a stimulating sex file is an enjoyable endeavour in and of itself, it does offer other pleasing benefits as well. Your interest in creating a well-stocked sex file will have you actively seeking the erotic every day which can boost your sexual mood and aid in arousal. You will have an almost endless supply of sensual ideas at your fingertips that can prevent sexual boredom from taking hold in your relationship. And should you decide to invite your partner to join you in this fun hobby by adding their own erotic inspiration, it can provide the two of you with a wonderful opportunity to openly discuss your sexual preferences and fantasies.

If you are not quite sure what kinds of pictures and words you should include in your sex file; here are a few suggestions:

♥ your idea of a perfectly sensuous bedroom to unleash all your inhibitions

♥ idyllic romantic getaways

♥ a perfect romantic garden or backyard hideaway

♥ any new sex positions and sex techniques you are interested in trying or revisiting

♥ sex props such as blindfolds, handcuffs, riding crops, fur gloves, feathers and costumes that you would like to include in your sexual play

♥ any sex toys you want

♥ locations where you would like to have sex

♥ any role-playing fantasies you find especially arousing and would like to explore

♥ preferred lingerie or sexy clothing for you and your partner

♥ a favoured perfume or cologne or other scent you find sexually-pleasing

♥ any romantic or erotic movies you would like to watch