If you are seeking a sex position that affords an immensely intimate, tender experience consider making love while you are both seated; the preferred position of many ancient cultures before the missionary position was introduced. With the seated sex position, the man sits upright with his legs crossed or in front of him while the woman sits on top facing him with her legs wrapped around his hips or thighs until both bodies are intertwined. If needed, the man or woman can support themselves further by leaning their back against a hard surface or stacked pillows.
Provides excellent eye contact between lovers
Partners can easily kiss, nibble, fondle and caress one another’s bodies or whisper sweet nothings in each other’s ears
Allows the woman to take charge of the rhythm, depth of thrust and angle of penetration
Wonderful position for the woman to experience high-level G-spot stimulation and possible orgasm
Position ideal for the woman to achieve clitoral orgasm
This position allows for deep penetration and because the man’s ability to thrust and move is limited, it can delay ejaculation and thus prolong intercourse
Since the hands of both partners are free, either one can stimulate her breasts or clitoris
An ideal position where one or other partner has a disability which makes prone postures or weight-bearing positions difficult
Offers plenty of visual stimulation for both lovers as they can easily observe penetration as well as the pleasure they are providing one another
Position does not require full nudity making it the perfect position for an impromptu session in those smaller, unexpected yet thrilling locations
The woman may tire in this position if intercourse goes on too long
The man’s legs may become sore; the woman can take some of the weight off his thighs by choosing to sit on a pillow instead
The man may lose his erection due to diminished blood flow to his penis
The self-conscious lover may find themselves too exposed in this position
The man has very little control over the rhythm, depth of thrust or angle of penetration
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The man is sits on a bed with his legs spread out in front of him. The woman guides his penis into her vagina before she leans back to support herself on either her hands or elbows providing more leverage for thrusting.
Leaning Back II
The woman unhooks her legs from her partner’s hips and braces them either on the wall or floor behind her lover. She then supports herself further by placing her hands on the floor or bed behind her. This enables her to circle and grind her hips and drive him wild with pleasure.
The woman milk her lover’s shaft and heightens her own arousal by pulsing her PC muscles following insertion.
Masturbating One Another
While in the seated position, both partners can manually stimulate one another to climax or to simply extend foreplay.
The woman drapes her legs over her partner’s elbows, burying him even further inside her before rolling and circling her hips sensuously.
Following orgasm, the satiated couple can spend a few moments locked together in their seated embrace – lip to lip, breast to breast, belly to belly and groin to groin – to enhance post-coital connection. ♥