Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates blood flow and natural pain killers, and feels great. The only way it can get better is if you throw a little bit of sex in there!
Oh screw little, how about a lot? If you master this technique you will never be single again!
Women love a man with the slow hands and an erotic massage can put any tired, grumpy woman into a quivering, ecstatic girl in no time!
Here are some tips on how to give an erotic massage (and make her beg you for it)!
Start Slow and Set the Atmosphere
Start by setting the mood. No one wants to get an erotic massage next to a pile of smelly clothes, a stack of bills, or in bright sunlight. Think sensual and make the room fit that idea.
Clear away any clutter before you begin and remove any stressful items.
Dim the lights and light come candles. Candles can help enhance mood lighting and give the room a pleasant sexy scent.
If possible put out silk or soft sheets.
You can also have music going but be sure it is relaxing or erotic. Think classical or steamy songs like “I Want a Little Sugar In My Bowl” sung by the lusty voice of Nina Simone. Probably nothing by Kanye West or Marilyn Manson.
The next step in how to give an erotic massage is not to rush things.
You may want to rub for all of thirty seconds before you grab a breast and squeeze, but do your best to resist! The art of massage is all about the tease and the gradual full body cover.
You want this to be erotic, which means a slow build up, intensifying as you get to the good stuff.
Start by relaxing your partner and giving her a good and thorough massage. Rub her shoulders, arms and stroke the calf muscles. Kneed her lower back.
Go slow, enjoy the way your partner’s skin feels under your hands. Use some heated oils or even a waster-based lube to really help your hands glide.
Imply Sex Without Getting to First Base
You may want to get close and whisper sexy words into your lover’s ear. Start gently, telling her how sexy she looks and how much you enjoy touching her smooth skin. Ask her if what you are doing feels good and listen for her quiet, heated response.
While rubbing the lower back slowly, move your hands lower until you are massaging her rump. When you reach her supple buttocks, rub slowly, allowing your fingers to linger wherever they choose.
Once your partner’s backside has been relaxed, it is time to have her turn over.
Your girl should already be nude but in case she’s not…(maybe you’re trying to seduce a new girlfriend fully clothed?) undress her slowly.
Have this sexpot lay on her back as you continue the erotic massage, caressing your favorite non-genital parts, like her tummy, arms, and those bubbly breasts!
Apply more oils, warming them in your hands first.
Rub your partner’s legs starting at the bottom and working your way up. Tease your partner by rubbing your fingertips lightly over their inner thighs.
After many torturous minutes of slow build up, let your fingers brush her “sweet spot”. Just give her a hint of what you’re going to do very soon. You can go back to rubbing the thighs for a moment before returning to the love zone.
By now, she may even be begging for you to be a pig and grab those wet genitals!
When she begs the first time, don’t succumb to her wishes totally.
Have some fun; tease your quivering partner, and increase anticipation for your magic hands. Slowly add more pressure as you rub the clitoris gently, building pressure the more aroused she becomes.
You could even penetrate her lips and meet that mushy love deep inside of her, all the while humming or whispering, letting her know you’re getting just as excited as she is.
The next step will depend on you and your partner. Does she like mostly clitoral stimulation or does she also enjoy deep vaginal penetration and or fingering?
Some women can have multiple orgasms and may want it all—your fingers, your tongue and your penis in that order. (Or all at the same time!)
If sex is the goal, keep massaging until she cries “Mercy!” Provided you work those hands patiently, she is almost guaranteed to want sex after the massage. So now it’s time sit back, relax and bask in your erotic massage mastery!
Erotic massages are always are fun and effective way to lead into sex… but if you don’t know how to make her orgasm, all the buildup will be for nothing.
– Your Tango