Fifty Shades Of Grey fever is upon us once again, so what better way to celebrate the release of the film version than experimenting with some 50 Shades Of Grey inspired sex positions?
From the downright kinky to dominant sex moves and submissive S&M, there’s plenty of fun ways to give your sex life a Red Room style makeover.
We’ve come up with the best positions from the book and have even gone one better – we’ve made sure they’re all super pleasurable for the woman too – after all, it’s not just about Christian Grey getting his kicks – we need ours too!
If you want to really stay true to the book, then you’ll need to make sure you’re happy being submissive to your man – remember you should never do any sex moves you’re not comfortable with.
These sex positions will guarantee a good time for the BOTH of you. Check out our exclusive kamasutra – 50 Shades Of Grey style erotic moves and channel your ‘inner goddess’! Enjoy…
1. Man handcuffed to bed with woman masturbating herself on top
Nothing is hotter than seeing your man get aroused and frustrated as you turn him on.
That sense of teasing is the key to this position. Handcuff your man to the bed and straddle him while touching yourself exactly how you like it.
Watching you get revved up and turned on will drive your man crazy and will make sure he has the ultimate erection to please you with after.
2. Man tied to chair and woman sat riding him
Have your fun as a dominatrix by getting your man to sit naked in a chair and tie him to it so he can’t move his arms or legs.
Then start with a sexy lap dance before riding his erection as fast or as slowly as you like – he’ll feel so disempowered he’s sure not to last long as you have your wicked way with him.
3. Nipple clamp action
Nipple clamps sound painful, but sometimes pain IS pleasure.
They’re bound to heighten all sensations and will add a rough and ready element to your average weekend sex. Your other half will become fascinated with them too – trust us!
4. Man on dog lead with woman in high heels
This might sound beyond the realm of your comfort zone but if your man wants to get submissive in the bedroom then he’ll adore this kinky position.
Simply start by attaching a leash to your man – you can pick one up from a sex store easily but just remember he has to be totally naked.
Then lead him around strutting your stuff in your hottest lingerie and highest heels. He’ll get a great view of your body from the ground up and will feel completely in your power.
The rest is in your hands, boss him around to give you pleasure as you see fit – and he HAS to obey.
5. Whip action
Whipping doesn’t have to hurt. While Christian Grey likes to whip Ana hard, you don’t have to be quite as hardcore as them.
Instead get your partner to whip you gently across your breasts, bum cheeks and even your vagina, the shock, anticipation and busy nerve endings will soon have you ready for some hard and fast sex that your ‘inner goddess’ would blush at.
6. Foreplay move: touching a woman between her legs
Whether it’s in a lift, on the sofa or in his office, Christian Grey can’t help himself, he just wants to turn Anastasia ON. One of his go to moves is moving her pants to the side and slipping his hand between her legs and slipping his fingers into her. This move is extra erotic when done somewhere you could get caught – a perfect foreplay move for the thrillseekers.
7. Woman having sex on work desk with her head over the edge of the desk
Come on, who hasn’t fantasized about having some hard core sex on top of their work desk (preferably with David Beckham)?
Christian Grey lives this fantasy out with Anastasia, knocking all items off, laying her down on the desktop with her head just hanging off the edge for a sexy blood rush.
You don’t need to go to the office to recreate this move though – the kitchen table will work just as well!
8. Woman on sofa having sex with hands placed on her head
Bring a new twist to sofa sex by giving it a 50 Shades makeover.
When Christian makes love to Anastasia on the sofa he gives it an S&M edge by forcing her to have her hands on her head so that she cannot touch him. Just trying to be passive during sex can be incredibly difficult so will naturally make for an extra intense session.
9. Missionary position with man holding woman’s arms down
The missionary position is a great place to start for S&M beginners. Have the man hold the woman’s arms down to give it a kinkier feeling, and if you want to add some extras why not try it with a blindfold or nipple clamps as well?
10. Missionary position with man handcuffed to bed
Handcuffing your partner or yourself to the bed can only lead to some intense sex.
If he’s cuffed go on top and control the pace, depth and rotation, and if you’re cuffed, lay back and enjoy fulfilling each other’s S&M fantasies. You’ll never forget it!
11. Doggy style with man pulling woman’s hair
Kinky hair pulling is definitely something Christian Grey indulges in, it’s a simple move but transforms a traditional sex position like doggy style into something a whole lot hotter.
12. Woman tied up and having sex
Hardcore bondage involves getting tied up which means you have no control on what happens next, this can make you feel super vulnerable so only consent to this move if you really trust your partner.
Not being able to move your arms or legs is not something everyone would be comfortable with but if you and your partner are up for it, proceed with caution.
Once you relax into this kinky set up you can expect all your sexual urges to be heightened by being totally within his power. This one takes confidence from both sides to really work.
13. Fellatio with man blindfolded
There’s nothing sexier than not being able to see or anticipate your partner’s next move.
If you’ve been with your man for a while this is a great way to bring back the excitement and it’s pretty simple. Blindfold him and let him lie there waiting for you to stimulate and pleasure him. The suspense will blow his mind.
Christian Grey wouldn’t have hesitated to perform fellatio on Anastasia while she was blindfolded, so recreate this move and enjoy all the surprising sensations!
Sex toys are a great way to spice things up and you know Christian Grey definitely approves of them.
You and your partner can have some seriously kinky fun with a paddle. Whether you’re paddling his butt or he’s paddling yours, the power you exert over each other with this simple sexy move will take your intimacy to a whole new place.
In 50 Shades Of Grey Christian manages to make everything super sexy – even feet!
He nearly sends Anastasia straight to cloud nine when he starts to kiss her toes and bite them on the pads. If your man is game, and your feet are freshly pedicured, get him to do the same, starting with kisses, nibbles and longer licks before moving up your ankles, legs and inner thighs.
The sensations will be like nothing you’ve felt before (knowing he’s starting at your feet) and will end his attentions between your legs is nothing short of HOT.
16. CunnilingusHave your partner kneel down while you’re sitting and spread your legs, to really make this hot make sure you’re not wearing any panties beforehand. The man can then pleasure your clitoris and your ‘sex’ with his lips and tongue, building up to an explosive orgasm.
Christian Grey is one naughty nibbler, he loves to bite, nibble and tweak poor Anastasia’s nipples which never fails to get her ‘inner goddess’ excited.
If you’re happy with some nipple action, get your man to gently take your nipple between his lips and graze it with his teeth, this ultra sensitive area will soon respond and having him want to eat you up which is incredibly sexy. An excellent foreplay move indeed.
As EL James says in 50 Shades Of Grey, “The Dominant may flog, spank, whip or corporally punish the Submissive as he sees fit, for purposes of discipline, for his own personal enjoyment, or for any other reason, which he is not obliged to provide.”
You don’t necessarily have to go THAT kinky with your spanking, but it’s true a little naughty spank can be very erotic. Get your man to lay you across his lap in your finest lingerie and have him spank you as gently or as hard as you like, and you’ll soon be taking your sexpectations to a whole-nother-level!
Pouring hot wax onto each other as foreplay might sound like a messy job, but if you set the mood right it can be explosive.
Why not use some special sex wax that melts on skin temperature and transforms into a lubricant?
The extremes of temperature are very erotic and if you use hot wax on your partner while he’s blindfolded it won’t be long until he’ll be begging you for more.
20. Ice Cube Action
Ice cubes and sex are a great combination but if you’ve not tried them together before, now is the time.
Have your man stimulate your nipples by kissing them while he has an ice cube in his mouth, then return the favor by performing fellatio after sipping at some ice cold champagne – the temperature sensations will drive him crazy.