I’ve been looking for every single video I can about it on YouTube – and whenever I watch two girls kissing, I get butterflies in my tummy
Getting involved in a same-sex relationship has never crossed my mind.
However, I watched a TV series recently with lesbians in it, and now my mind is filled with so much curiosity.
I’ve been looking for every single video I can about it on YouTube and watching movies with lesbians in them, and whenever I watch two girls kissing, I get butterflies in my tummy.
I never thought that I could be gay and I might not be, but why am I so intrigued by these films?
I’m not sure it’s necessarily a sign of you being gay. There are loads of couples and single people who watch porn involving lesbians and threesomes – and get turned on by it.
This doesn’t mean they actually do those things, but it turns them on and gets them excited. It’s all about fantasy – just because you like watching films about threesomes, for example, doesn’t mean you can’t have a relationship without three or more people in it!
Fantasy and taking yourself out of the norm is a very powerful tool when it comes to sex – why do you think Fifty Shades of Grey is so popular?
You don’t tell me how old you are either but maybe you’re in a period of discovery and exploring your sexuality. That’s entirely normal. You don’t have to put pressure on yourself to be one thing or another.
Enjoy this time of your life where you find out what it is that turns you on – whether that’s in gay or straight relationships.