Women’s health: Everything you need to know about keeping your lady bits healthy


Just like your skin and hair, your vagina changes with age. Trouble is, our lady bits aren’t usually water cooler chat, and many of us feel embarrassed discussing ‘down there’ with our doctor.

According to research by Vagisil, 42% of us don’t like mentioning the word ‘vagina’, and more than half of women would be embarrassed to ask for help if we had an intimate health concern – even though 4 in 10 have had personal problems in the past.

And a fifth currently have concerns about the health of their vagina.

This means we’re woefully unprepared for any changes that may lie ahead, such as vaginal dryness, irritation and chronic pain, all of which can affect our sex lives, relationships and health.

These issues may sound scary, but they are common and can be sorted. Here’s how to get to know your vagina and keep your bits healthy….

Strengthen up!

Women's health: Everything you need to know about keeping your lady bits healthy

As women go through different life stages, the vagina also experiences huge changes. “During childbirth, the vagina stretches to allow the baby through. The muscles, ligaments and tendons that surround and support the vagina
in the pelvis also stretch and loosen,” explains medical director Dr Tony Steele.

How it affects you: “This means the vagina and other pelvic organs, including the bladder and bowel, are less well supported,” says Dr Steele.

Likewise, after the age of 40 and at the onset of the menopause, because of falling hormone levels, the muscles in the pelvis start to weaken and the contents of the pelvis, including the vagina and bladder, can bulge downward under gravity, known as a prolapse. It can lead to urinary incontinence, which a quarter of women over 40 suffer from.

How to deal with it: Practising pelvic floor exercises are vital to avoid these problems and improve your sex life, too.

In need of lubrication?

Women's health: Everything you need to know about keeping your lady bits healthy

“Vaginal dryness is very common and is not just related to the menopause. Pregnancy, hormone treatments and even stress or tiredness can also cause this,” explains Diana Mansour, consultant in community gynaecology and reproductive healthcare.

Around the time of the menopause, oestrogen levels fall, which can lead to vaginal atrophy – the term used to describe reduced blood flow to, and thickness and moisture of, the vaginal lining.

How it affects you: “Vaginal dryness can be uncomfortable, leaving you more vulnerable to irritation or pain during sex,” explains Diana. “Approximately half of all women experience this after the menopause,” she adds.

How to deal with it: Thankfully, this is easy to solve with moisturiser for use on intimate areas to keep the vaginal area hydrated. Try SASS Intimate Dryness Gel, £14, Boots . And if having sex is causing you pain, invest in Durex Real Feel Pleasure Gel & Lubricant, £9.99, Boots (above).

Infection prevention

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Menopause can make you more prone to BV and urinary tract infections

If you’re experiencing irritation, it could be due to an infection called bacterial vaginosis. “This is an inflammation of the vagina, and can become more common around the time of the menopause,” explains Dr Steele.

How it affects you: Symptoms include a fishy-smelling discharge as well as soreness and swelling, and it’s almost twice as common as thrush. “Vaginosis can be caused by different infections and is not generally a sexually transmitted condition,” says Dr Steele.

How to deal with it: A simple swab test can diagnose it, while a short course of antibiotics usually resolves the problem. If not, Balance Activ BV Gel, £9.99 , helps to prevent and relieve the symptoms.

When it comes to protecting yourself against STIs, always use condoms. “A drop in hormones mean the vaginal lining is thinner and more prone to bleeding during intercourse in older women, so practise safe sex to reduce the risk of infection,” says Dr Steele.

Post-menopausal women are also more prone to urinary tract infections. “Older women tend to have less of a barrier to bacteria getting into the urine, because the outlet to the bladder (urethra) becomes thinner and less protective with age,” explains Dr Steele.

HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) can help alleviate some of these problems by increasing the hormone levels in your body, but if you have any concerns regarding irritation, discharge or pain affecting your intimate area, or are concerned that you may have an infection, always speak to your doctor.

Do things look a bit different down there?

It’s always good to keep an eye on things by carrying out regular checks with a hand-held mirror. Look out for any unusual lumps, sores or swellings, and see
a doctor if you notice anything different or worrying. Although don’t be shocked if you notice a few grey hairs, or your pubic hair begin to thin out. It’s a natural part of the ageing process and totally normal.

“Also the skin of the pubic area, the vulva and labia around the outside of the vagina, and the pelvic area is like skin elsewhere in the body – it becomes lighter, thinner and more wrinkled and freckled with age,” explains Dr Steele.

How to do your pelvic exercises

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Dr Pixie McKenna

Dr Pixie McKenna, GP and presenter of C4s Embarrassing Bodies, shares her tips on strengthing pelvic floor muscles…

  1. Locate the right muscles: Find your pelvic floor by stopping yourself urinating mid-flow. These are the muscles you need to squeeze.
  2. Work on your technique: Pelvic floor exercises can be done anywhere, from the bus stop to the bathroom, but I recommend mastering the technique while sitting on the toilet with your feet firmly on the floor.
  3. Squeeze and lift: When you’re contracting your pelvic floor muscles, it should feel like you’re not only squeezing them, but lifting them up too. Don’t be tempted to squeeze your buttocks or thighs, but do exert a little tension around the back passage, as if you are trying to prevent yourself from passing wind.
  4. Build up your strength: When you’re starting off, squeeze the muscles for a second or two then relax. Then gradually increase the time until you get up to 10 seconds, slowly relaxing the muscles as you release the tension. Next, aim to do fast twitch exercises – squeeze and pull as before, but hold for one second, then relax.
  5. There is no quick fix: It takes weeks of regular exercise to regain the strength in your pelvic floor and months to see a discernible difference. But don’t stop doing them once your pelvic floor strength has been restored – it will weaken if it doesn’t get a workout!

There are a couple of products on the market that may also help…

Women's health: Everything you need to know about keeping your lady bits healthy
Elvie and PeriCoach

Elvie , £129, is a small pebble-shaped pod that you insert in your vagina, which links to an app on your phone to guide you through workouts. It then measures your pelvic floor strength and gives feedback.

PeriCoach , £145 is similar to the Elvie – pop the gadget into your vagina, which connects to an app on your phone to act as a personal trainer. Measuring your muscles ensures you are doing it right, and increases strength.

Dr Tony Steele is medical director of online clinic doctorfox.co.uk .


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