Tongue Tricks




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By the time you’re a grown ass man, you’ve probably (hopefully) nailed the basic functions that fall under the category of using your mouth to please a . You fancy an excellent kisser, give oral like a self-proclaimed pro and even use your tongue to probe obvious areas like the nipple or clit.

But are you really using your mouth to its full potential when you’re getting down and ? We asked a few experts to weigh in on the mouth-centric acts that all men should be readily practicing between the sheets. Read on for what they had to say about putting the moves where your mouth is.

1. Use It On The Whole Clitoris
Make sure your mouth is showing some love to more than just the tip of the clit, therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk recommends. “The clitoris actually extends in a wishbone shape under the lips,” so be sure to extend your efforts accordingly.

2. Warm Up The Clit
Now that you know not to neglect the whole clit, you need to know how to warm it up, so to speak. “For most women, the clitoris is really sensitive,” sex therapist Vanessa Marin explains, “and requires extra care when you’re just starting [oral].” Marin says to try keeping your tongue wide and flat, making , slow licks from the bottom to the top, lingering on the clitoris for an extra second.

3. Give A Rim Job
Analingus is the new cunnilingus, says sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk. “Women are finding how turned on they get with oral anal play.” To give the proper rim job, Dr. Van Kirk says to use your mouth to bite, lick and suck around the opening of the butthole, then trace your tongue up her crack to her lower back. Once you go crack you’ll most definitely be back.

4. Tease Properly
There are so many little things you can do with your mouth to build up to the main event. Instead of going right down on your lady, psychologist Dr. Rachel Needle suggests that you tease her by running your lips up and down her inner thigh. “Start with a little lick here, working down her stomach and up her thighs. Then put your lips together and gently blow.”

5. Talk Dirty
It’s a fact — adding to your sex routine leads to longer, harder and more frequent orgasms for your lady, according to relationship expert and author of Screwing The Rules Laurel House. “In fact,” House says, “the guy should do 95% of the talking. It will instantly change your .”

6. Say What You Want
If you’re a grown-ass man, not only should you be opening your mouth to tell your partner what she’s doing right, but also to ask for suggestions on what you could do to make things even more mind blowing for the both of you. “Express pleasure, give guidance and ask questions to ensure you’re pleasing her,” says sex expert Elly Klein. “Also (when you’re not ) you should talk about what you want in bed to make sure you’re both on the same page.”

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