Sex tips: How to make sure you BOTH orgasm during a quickie

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WE REVEAL five top tips for an explosive quickie.

Sex tips: How to make sure you BOTH orgasm during a quickie

THRILLS: There are some easy ways to make sure she enjoys a quickie as much as you

Trying to balance work, socialising with , exercise and a can be hard. But a there are some ways you can ensure you both get the most out of a quickie.

While we’d all love to spend hours in the sack, there is something thrilling about the frenzied intensity of a passionate session.

But when it comes to both parties getting off, hetero in particular are at something of an anatomical disadvantage.

The average sex session 5.4 minutes, according to a study published in the 2015 Journal of Medicine.

However, the average women takes around 20 minutes to reach climax – but there are some ways you can get her there much quicker.

Here global pleasure brand LELO reveals some expert tips on how to make his ‘n’ her’s orgasms a reality, however tight your time-frame.

Sex tips: How to make sure you BOTH orgasm during a quickie

KINKY: Sending sexy texts earlier in the day is a good way to start the foreplay early

1. Sext Me Up

In 2012 we revealed the results of a very revealing survey. A saucy 71% of women were sexting their partners, and a sultry 73% were enjoying phone sex.

Technology has only become more sophisticated since then, and frankly if you’re not using it to safely set the stage for your next quickie then you’re missing a trick.

A well-timed sext can act as a springboard for passions to follow, as can sending sexy snaps – although only in a relationship rooted in trust, and with certain provisos.

Get it right, they’ll be burning with desire the moment you walk through the door. Because there’s nothing hotter than knowing you’re wanted, urgently.

2. Set the (Mental) Scene

Prepare yourself – or them – for pleasures to come by engaging that most erogenous of zones – the mind.

In other words, stop clock-watching and start anticipating. That could be by indulging in your  of choice, or maybe a spot of erotic fiction.

Establishing a sexy state of mind ahead of time isn’t just a lot of fun, it can also help get you both on the same passionate page, quick smart. Efficiency has never seemed so tantalising.

Sex tips: How to make sure you BOTH orgasm during a quickie

EXPERIMENT: Using sex toys can help enhance the experience for both parties

3. Fun with Toys

It’s estimated that just 30% of women orgasm through penetration alone. Cue the clitoris: with more than 8,000 nerve endings, is it any wonder that for most women, it’s stimulation of this most sensitive of pleasure buds that really cuts the mustard?

For many, a clitoral vibrator brings climax far faster than fingers or tongue alone can manage.

Go big with a Smart Wand, or tiny yet mighty with the likes of LILY 2 or SIRI 2.

Alternatively, and for pleasure like no other, may we not-so-humbly suggest SONA, which pulses with sonic waves to stimulate the entire clitoris, inside and out.

Just don’t say we didn’t warn you: this one’s clitorally mind-blowing.

4. Positions: Go Deep

There’s a time and a place for everything – including sex positions.

And while lazy Sunday morning sex sessions just scream The Spoon, when time is of the essence and passions are running high, positions that allow for deep, intense thrusts might just be what’s needed to tip you over the edge.

Doggy Style, or with a twist – that is, her ankles over his shoulders – allow for deep, deep penetration to ramp up the hotness in a flash, while the likes of the tried and tested Cowgirl put her firmly in the, erm, saddle.

5. Location, Location, Location

No need to waste time making your way to the bedroom; from kitchen counters to sofas and showers, the average offers ample settings for a more than satisfactory quickie. Mixing things up lends a tantalidsing thrill to whatever naughtiness you’re indulging in, and an illicitness that can be deeply erotic.

If you’ve got a little longer here is a guide on how to make her orgasm in 15 minutes flat.

Source: dailystar.co.uk