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Yes, it’s that time once again: The day we feature your dating and relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally and with as much detail as possible, the overwhelming amount of inquiries forces us to highlight those that are most interesting to AskMen.com readers.
This week’s Q&A talks about perfecting your approach and what being bold can do for you. David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women, has your answers.
When I ordered your book I was studying some NLP stuff, so I did not read the book until recently, and how mistaken I was. After reading the book I realised I should have read it a long time ago because I noticed drastic improvements in the way I communicate and attract women, far more drastic than all the time I’ve spent studying NLP related material, which leads to my questions.
I read that you had done a lot of NLP training yourself. I’m 32 years old and at the point where I need to focus on one route that leads to my goal of becoming a “pick-up artist.” I know some people would say that it takes bits of this, and bits of that and find out what works for you, however, I want your personal opinion on this one. What would you tell a newbie who had the chance of learning NLP in terms of getting in good with women? Would you tell them to bother with it?
I’m now thinking of completely focusing my energy on perfecting the Cocky & Funny approach and not wasting any more time on things that are not necessary for me to become good in this game. I need your advice on this one. Thanks for the good work; I’m looking forward to you writing updated books about this whole game.
david d. responds
For those of you that don’t know, “NLP” stands for “Neuro Linguistic Programming.” There’s a lot of buzz about how this can help you in all areas of life — from psychological issues to earning money to meeting more women.
Yes, I have spent a lot of time learning about NLP, and I’ve tried a lot of NLP ideas when it comes to meeting women.
The simplest answer I can give you is this:
David D. continues to help this reader with perfecting his approach…