Dominatrix reveals best ways to take control in the bedroom

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DOMINATRIX Goddess Aviva has revealed her top tips. The professional mistress has some words of advice for women who want to try BDSM.

Dominatrix reveals best ways to take control in the bedroom

PILLOW : A dominatrix told women how to take control in the bedroom (Pic: SUPPLIED/GETTY)

A professional dominatrix has revealed her top tips.

Goddess Aviva, who has been working as a mistress for five years, has some words of advice for women who want to be more dominant in the bedroom.

In an exclusive with Daily Star Online, the BDSM pro explained that communication is key.

Here are her expert pointers.

Before getting experimental in the bedroom, it’s important to communicate with your partner.

This can alleviate any awkwardness, as well as making it easy to discuss what does and doesn’t turn you on.

Thinking up a safe word is also advisable if you’re planning on getting kinky.

Goddess Aviva said: “Make sure you communicate with them before, get verbal consent to planned activities, discussing interests and hard limits, and making sure you are both on the same page.

“Aftercare and conversation after are necessary too.”

Dominatrix reveals best ways to take control in the bedroom

WHIPPED INTO SHAPE: Goddess Aviva has this advice for ladies who want to get kinky (Pic: SUPPLIED)

While it may feel a little strange to try different techniques, try to be as open as possible.

The mistress advises women to to others for inspiration.

This can to unleash their inner dominatrix – although this may take a bit of time and practice.

Goddess Aviva said: “Practice makes !

“I know it can feel awkward at first when you’re trying on roles you don’t have a lot of experience with, but if you’re with a partner who is understanding, you can experiment and explore without judgement.”

Dominatrix reveals best ways to take control in the bedroom

GIRL POWER: Goddess Aviva says communication is key in the bedroom (Pic: SUPPLIED)

She added: “I would also suggest doing your research before jumping into dominant activities, especially if you want to explore something that has more risk involved, like corporal punishment.

“Check out what other women are doing and get inspired!

“A lot of it is trial and error, figuring what works specifically for you.

“The other important aspect of exploring is the person you are exploring with.”

Source: dailystar.co.uk