I’m deeply in love with someone at work. This person led me on but now she says she’s not interested.
I’m confused, as other people say this woman does like me, given the way she flirts and also because of the way we are around each other.
I’m married, but I’m not in love with my wife and am looking to end it. We have a young child.
I feel trapped and I don’t know what to do.
If you’ve been thinking of ending your marriage, then the reason you’ve become attracted to this woman at work could simply be because you’re not happy with the person at home.
I think you need to forget about your colleague for now because that’s just adding to the confusion.
You must sort out your marriage one way or the other. If you decide that means leaving your wife, then that’s what you have to do.
But before you throw in the towel, it might be worth having marriage guidance.
It’s easy to lose your way, particularly when kids come along, but perhaps with counselling you could get
If, at the end of it, you still think it’s not working for you, then at least you can walk away knowing you tried.
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