Summer may be winding down, but temps are still scorching. Duh, hot sex is great, but sex when it’s brutally hot out = not so much. So what to do? Stay cool, without letting the sizzle fizzle. Here are five ways to keep your love life just as hot … without the heat stroke.
1. KING OF THE WORLD
Disclaimer: You can probably only pull this one off if you have a private, secluded home. Get in Jack-and-Rose pose at an open window with him behind, holding your hips steady and while you hold onto a window frame or balcony railing. Feels subversive to be sort of naked “outside,” plus it’s just cooler by the window. Aim a fan or two at yourselves for extra chill and cinematic feel. For extra security, do this at night and turn all your lights out.
2. ICE, ICE, BABY
If it’s really effing hot, you have to go all out, sister. Put your sheets in the freezer for at least 30 to 40 minutes prior, point a fan on full blast at yourselves, and bring a bowl of ice to bed. Trail ice across each other’s bodies (Not the balls. Ever.), then blow for instant cool. Slide atop him can opener-style with one leg curled up beside him and the other straight down. Pop a piece of ice between your bodies as needed. Brrrrrrr
3. SUPER SOAKER
Take a trip to a sex toy store together (AC!) and each pick out something really good (and waterproof — important!). Fill the tub with an few inches of coolish water, sit between his legs facing him with a leg draped over the side of the tub and fire up those toys. And yes, of course you can go manual and use your fingers, but getting something new feels hotter — plus way less work. (If you’re unsure what to get: For him, try clear Ice Lady Crystal Fleshlight so you can watch every thrust. For you, one of those make-you-lose it-in-two-seconds rabbit vibes.)
4. TORRID TOSS
OK, so there’s no AC, and no end to the heat in sight. Fuck it. Embrace the weather with some raw, sweaty love. Have him lie slightly on top of you for maximum skin-to-skin contact. Entwine your legs so you can roll around.. Go all in and revel in your sweaty passion — at some point, your primal brain will kick in and rubbing your slippery chests together will seem like the sexiest idea ever.
5. THE WINE SPRITZER
Put on a T-shirt, sit his ass down, and grab a spray bottle filled with achilled white wine. Spritz your boobs, and let him watch. Offer him a taste, then spritz your way down his chest, licking it up as you go. You can give him a bit of a boozy BJ or just hop on his lap and ride that man, spritzing each other as needed.