How deep is your love?
Penetration depth is kind of a Goldilocks issue — too deep and it’s like he’s challenging your cervix to a boxing match, too shallow and it’s just kinda “meh.” (If your dude is super long, you might be getting too much of the former, so feel free to step away from this article. You, my friend, will be needing “Positions if He Has a Big Penis”). When you can figure out ways to get it just right — deep penetration can be so, so good.
Here’s how to aim your junk so you’re getting the very deepest of penetration, which I would be happy to abbreviate to DP, except that’s a whole different thing.
1. DEEP IMPACT
For a whole new way of experiencing each other, get on your side, lift a leg up, and have him straddle your leg, entering from a kneeling position. He may find spots you didn’t know you had, and if he doesn’t, squirt a little dollop of lube on his fingers so he can cup his hand over your clit, giving you a long smooth rub with every thrust. Plus, if he is a man with a bit of a bend to his penis, this is a great way to embrace his curves.
2. THE WHEELBARROW
Give the wheelbarrow a try if you are up for a challenge and strong as hell. It’s like the grade-school wheelbarrow game, but naked and with fucking. Assume the position, with your arms straight out to the floor, holding your weight (I told you this shit was hard) while your partner holds up your legs and enters standing from behind. If things get too crazy, or you just can’t hold yourself up, lie facedown with your hips at the edge of the bed and let him lift up your legs to get you to dick-height. Best rec with this is trying the first version, just to have done it, but finishing in the second way, so you can give relax and give yourself some clit love.
3. ROLLING IN THE DEEP
If you haven’t already discovered this way to take missionary much, much deeper, give this tweak a try. Put a pillow under your bum to raise your hips up and wrap your legs over his shoulders. This is pretty damn glorious on its own, but if he holds onto your legs and pushes them back toward your head (only slightly, you’re not made of rubber here), he will hit places deep on the top of your vaginal wall (sorry, there is no decent synonym for “top of your vaginal wall”) that feel dear … god … so … amazing.
4. BITILASANA, BABY
Bitilasna (aka The Cow position in yoga, but don’t think of that in class ’cause it will ruin everything) is surest way to get Tab A waaaaay into Slot B. Get on all fours doggy-style but really exaggerate the arch of your back so your hips are tipped up enticingly. Get an even deeper feel by pushing your body back with your hands to take him in further or rotate your hips to play with the angle.
5. THE EXTRA MILE
Another fun (and I do mean *~fun~*) way to play with depth is throwing yourself over the arm of a couch and angling your hips up even higher. Let him hold up your legs all manly-like while he watches himself enter you. If your partner is on the smaller side, has some erection issues, or you just want to go really deep once in awhile, there are silicone penis extenders that he can slide over what he’s already got going on to add some depth and width. (Oh girl, tread very carefully when bringing this up.)